[Visage]

Originally Posted by sungrass

Well on Towie - a good five years back she was much more sweet and very vulnerable - she really tried hard to find love - and was rejected and humiliated over and over again for ratings.

This is what annoys me - is that people do not have memories.

But surely a lot of the comments have nothing to do with having memories of TOWIE. I have never seen TOWIE and judge her personality on what I see in the house - a show I am watching and discussing.

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Visage

But surely a lot of the comments have nothing to do with having memories of TOWIE. I have never seen TOWIE and judge her personality on what I see in the house - a show I am watching and discussing.

Thats fair enough and I think its right to judge people with how they are in the house but its often not the case with CBB - when people do CBB the whole appeal is that they are supposed to be "known" so thats all I was pointing out - I ve watched TOWIE since the beginning due to netflix! and the fact that I have a very serious job and I realised watching reality TV was a really healthy * instead of getting drunk on a Friday - fun way to relax. Towie over the past 4/5 years has made me laugh till I cry like big brother used to do - You'd have to watch it to understand - the thing is Gemma has a public story and I was only trying to explain it. I so wish you could watch that episode of her at the Pool Party - you would just not hate her anymore. What shes been through is horrific - people are SO nasty about her weight etc and shes literally been hit was she was down so many times

its not even entertainment now - and Im actually glad she left TOWIE.

[Visage]

Originally Posted by sungrass

I ve watched TOWIE since the beginning due to netflix!

Fair point, I see where you're coming from and I can understand your frustration when you're reading some of the comments on here.

Originally Posted by sungrass

I realised watching reality TV was a really healthy * instead of getting drunk on a Friday - fun way to relax.

I agree, much better lifestyle to have and no feeling crappy the next day too.

Originally Posted by sungrass

you would just not hate her anymore.

I don't hate her, I don't like who she is or how she comes across in the house.

If she's had a very tough life then I can see (from your comments) how it can lead to where she is now.

The thing with this show is this, I've seen many celebrities go in and comment on why they are doing the show

"I want the public to see the real me and not pay attention to the tabloids"

"I'm hoping to change the perception people have of me"

Originally Posted by sungrass

people are SO nasty about her weight etc and shes literally been hit was she was down so many times

I'm always disappointed that some people feel the need to tarnish a person based on their appearance. In whatever form it comes out, it's always ugly and disappointing to read.


I can chat/debate about any housemates behaviour, but struggle when people resort to personal insults as a way of bashing a housemate.

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Visage

Fair point, I see where you're coming from and I can understand your frustration when you're reading some of the comments on here.



I agree, much better lifestyle to have and no feeling crappy the next day too.





I don't hate her, I don't like who she is or how she comes across in the house.

If she's had a very tough life then I can see (from your comments) how it can lead to where she is now.

The thing with this show is this, I've seen many celebrities go in and comment on why they are doing the show

"I want the public to see the real me and not pay attention to the tabloids"

"I'm hoping to change the perception people have of me"



I'm always disappointed that some people feel the need to tarnish a person based on their appearance. In whatever form it comes out, it's always ugly and disappointing to read.


I can chat/debate about any housemates behaviour, but struggle when people resort to personal insults as a way of bashing a housemate.

I feel the same - I think the personal insults really let everyone on here down. Its as nasty behaviour as they behaviour they preport to dislike in housemates!