[rionablue]

Dani might have handled it wrong by not taking her aside but she has had one on ones with her where she has tried to advise her about the Jeremy situation and Steph wouldn't listen. I really don't think Dani is jealous of Steph what I do think is that Dani genuinely doesn't want Steph to head down the horrible dirty road Dani herself headed down. I think the quote 'if you continue like this you will never work again' may have been way over the top BUT Dani must have thought that if she said THAT maybe THEN Steph would listen. Im sick of Steph. I have blown hot and cold on Dani but I seriously think her heart is in the right place

[Visage]

Originally Posted by rionablue

Dani might have handled it wrong by not taking her aside but she has had one on ones with her where she has tried to advise her about the Jeremy situation and Steph wouldn't listen.

She may have tried to talk to Steph on a one to one a few times, but if Daniella had anything about her or was remotely concerned with Steph then she should know better (through experience and age) than to publicly make Steph feel humiliated or even worse ganged upon.

The way Daniella spoke to Steph in front of everyone was wrong on so many levels, if the thought process was to try and help Steph.

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by rionablue

Dani might have handled it wrong by not taking her aside but she has had one on ones with her where she has tried to advise her about the Jeremy situation and Steph wouldn't listen. I really don't think Dani is jealous of Steph what I do think is that Dani genuinely doesn't want Steph to head down the horrible dirty road Dani herself headed down. I think the quote 'if you continue like this you will never work again' may have been way over the top BUT Dani must have thought that if she said THAT maybe THEN Steph would listen. Im sick of Steph. I have blown hot and cold on Dani but I seriously think her heart is in the right place

I understand that you think Dani means well and you are probably right
...I like her myself....but I think she is wrong to compare Steph with herself....there is no comparison at all....Dani was a human train crash with a drug addiction so bad her nose fell off, she was twice admitted to a high dependency drying out clinic and once sectioned.....she lost her family, her friends and ended up homeless.....she is herself a very vulnerable person like Steph but it's unfair of her to make any comparison between herself and Steph because there isn't one.
Steph was monumentally attacked and insulted 3 times last night...first put up for eviction by the housemates who had refused to do the task....then accused of being the same wreck as Dani at her age.....then, behind her back, accused of being out of control and too intimidating for the others to go to bed, by Gemma.
It's so awful it's hard to believe....and ironically it's Steph who looks like the bad guy in this story.

[jet]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I understand that you think Dani means well and you are probably right
...I like her myself....but I think she is wrong to compare Steph with herself....there is no comparison at all....Dani was a human train crash with a drug addiction so bad her nose fell off, she was twice admitted to a high dependency drying out clinic and once sectioned.....she lost her family, her friends and ended up homeless.....she is herself a very vulnerable person like Steph but it's unfair of her to make any comparison between herself and Steph because there isn't one.
Steph was monumentally attacked and insulted 3 times last night...first put up for eviction by the housemates who had refused to do the task....then accused of being the same wreck as Dani at her age.....then, behind her back, accused of being out of control and too intimidating for the others to go to bed, by Gemma.
It's so awful it's hard to believe....and ironically it's Steph who looks like the bad guy in this story.

You are exaggerating there. Gemma said she didn't want to go into the bedroom because Steph was yelling and screeching and it didn't look like it was going to end any time soon. What is wrong with that?

[rionablue]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I understand that you think Dani means well and you are probably right
...I like her myself....but I think she is wrong to compare Steph with herself....there is no comparison at all....Dani was a human train crash with a drug addiction so bad her nose fell off, she was twice admitted to a high dependency drying out clinic and once sectioned.....she lost her family, her friends and ended up homeless.....she is herself a very vulnerable person like Steph but it's unfair of her to make any comparison between herself and Steph because there isn't one.
Steph was monumentally attacked and insulted 3 times last night...first put up for eviction by the housemates who had refused to do the task....then accused of being the same wreck as Dani at her age.....then, behind her back, accused of being out of control and too intimidating for the others to go to bed, by Gemma.
It's so awful it's hard to believe....and ironically it's Steph who looks like the bad guy in this story.

I never heard anyone say she was like Dani I must have missed that part. I genuinely don't think Dani or anyone else was accusing Steph as being the SAME as Dani at that age because if they were or did that was not right. Steph is a complete and utter mess. I cant stand Collins so I am not even going to talk about here as she is a patronising bitch but maybe I am gullible when I still think that Dani (even though she handled the situation all wrong) was trying to warn Steph that if she continued the way she was going her credibility would be gone. And I thought the only housemate who refused to go into that room when asked was Darren. It looks like Stephs ONLY friend in the house is Jeremy SPECIALLY when Scotty has turned on her

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by rionablue

I never heard anyone say she was like Dani I must have missed that part. I genuinely don't think Dani or anyone else was accusing Steph as being the SAME as Dani at that age

It's sad and a mess but Dani did say that....on the live feed two nights ago the last 10 minutes of the show was Dani sat in bed telling all the others in the room that Steph is just like she was at that age and is heading for a life of destruction just like her.....that she is self destructive and is def going to ruin her life....that's a huge accusation and assumption ....especially to say to John and Darren who know exactly how bad Dani used to be ....that's a bad picture to paint of Steph....I understand why Steph feels so defensive all time and why she lashes out.....it must be so frustrating to know that there is a pack mentality taking place against you and that because of their ages their version of the story will be better than hers.

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by rionablue

Dani might have handled it wrong by not taking her aside but she has had one on ones with her where she has tried to advise her about the Jeremy situation and Steph wouldn't listen. I really don't think Dani is jealous of Steph what I do think is that Dani genuinely doesn't want Steph to head down the horrible dirty road Dani herself headed down. I think the quote 'if you continue like this you will never work again' may have been way over the top BUT Dani must have thought that if she said THAT maybe THEN Steph would listen. Im sick of Steph. I have blown hot and cold on Dani but I seriously think her heart is in the right place

as normal - I am right behind you rionablue - she done it because she has been there and got the tshirt - and like you say - she can see it clearly.

Daniella went up from last nights show in my estimation.

( don't worry I wont propose - well not yet anyway )