[Vicky.]

I explained all of this to the council already, and as they can see the DWP systems they must know I am telling the truth but they reckon its not their problem and that I shouldn't be in arrears to start with, which is fair comment I guess but its still not entirely my fault that I have had a reduced income for months due to the miracle workers at my fit for work test...ugh. Its just getting ontop of me right now. I know I am being irrational and OTT and way too emotional. I should be fine tomorrow,m shouldnt have brought this up on here really :S Thanks ammi

[VanessaFeltz.]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I explained all of this to the council already, and as they can see the DWP systems they must know I am telling the truth but they reckon its not their problem and that I shouldn't be in arrears to start with, which is fair comment I guess but its still not entirely my fault that I have had a reduced income for months due to the miracle workers at my fit for work test...ugh. Its just getting ontop of me right now. I know I am being irrational and OTT and way too emotional. I should be fine tomorrow,m shouldnt have brought this up on here really :S Thanks ammi

Well a very important day for you is coming up and you have some difficulties i am glad you are talking about your worries here, we are all here for you

[Ammi]

no, you're not being irrational Vicky...you're someone who has been planning her wedding for months and with only two weeks to go, completely exhausted with stress...even without anything else going on, that would be perfectly normal and how most people would be...but you haven't been well, have two small children, had all of the complications to your health which were beyond your control and where people are responsible and the ongoing frustrations with that...they'll have to wait for your rent or maybe agree to pay what you can, however small...the Citizen's Advice could help with that, maybe..?...that will all be sorted out when your money is sorted out and can't be speeded up because that's beyond your control...but what you can do, what is in your control and something that you've been excited about...is you can make sure that none of that encroaches on your day because all of the problems with that have been put right now, there is nothing to worry about with that and you can make sure that you get on your honeymoon and for however long you're there, you can not think about anything else back at home and just take the break you need, when you get back, then you can start being irrational with worry again but that'll have to wait as well because you have the priority of a great wedding and honeymoon right now, with the people who are there to enjoy your day with you.......