[user104658]

Originally Posted by Livia

I live in the real world. Where people take responsibility for themselves and their animals and people don't immediately say they're suffering from mental health issues because they're a scumbag.

And you wouldn't get a visa to live in my world TS.

And how exactly do people become "scum"? Are they born "scum"? Are they just "scummy babies"?

You live in a world where the answer to that question is " don't know don't care punish the scum". If the question is asked at all. Which seems doubtful.

I'd rather live in a world where we look for solutions to stop people ending up like this is the first place than one where we see the aftermath and grab our pitchforks. That's why it's important to acknowledge that this woman is clearly a psychological mess. Not to "excuse her". Nothing to do with her. But so that we understand it in an effort to stop others from becoming the same.

So, not looking for a visa to t'otherworld I'm afraid. Even if it does seem like a simpler existence. Easy answers with predefined boundaries, etc.