[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Withano

She actively chose to not be at least civil. I think most fully grown adults would have said bye and seen her off at a time like that.

Or maybe she actively chose to be dignified? And maybe she actively chose not to be a hypocrite? Better than actively choosing to be sly, manipulative and vicious?

She couldn't win whatever she chose to do, as those her dislike her would have chosen to criticise her either way.