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Originally Posted by joeysteele
Oh gosh it is amazing how distortion of facts and fairness go out the window when people take a dislike to certain housemates.
Firstly I am not someone who cares much about Bear but I do care about fairness.
The only person that night who appeared to be nearing threatening physically another housemate was Heavy D to Bear, not vice versa.
I never said and no one said lock the others in the bedroom either.
Often in BB, housemates are ordered into the house or bedroom and to stay there for often many and often trivial reasons at times too, once they were told to do so when someone was shouting out information on the other side of the house walls for goodness sake.
All BB had to do was tell housemates to remain in the house,pull the shutters down possibly too, allowing Bear to be in the garden until the room was set up and ready.
They would have the freedom to talk, mix with each other, go to bed, the toilet,the kitchen, get food or a drink.
Hardly the same scenario they put Bear in.
There is no need whatsoever to force any human being to stay in a locked small room with no one physically present for any unspecified amount of time.
Bear had calmed down, he accepted not going back into the house but erupted when told he had to stay in the diary room behind that locked door,being given no idea how long that would take.
You may see that as fair, I don't.
Also just where did Bear make any personal physical threats during the whole incident to any other housemate at all.
Or do we now as a society judge and condemn people on what we 'think' they may do rather than what they actually do.
As I say when a housemate is not liked,it is amazing how fairness and what is right goes out the window as to anything negative applied to them.
Even when all that happened here was once alone and well away from the others he threw one object,which happened to hit a mirror and broke a bit of it.
No threats from him to any other physically during the whole incident, no standing offs and no major aggression towards any other housemate directly,unlike heavy Ds performance towards him,simply because he couldn't get from a younger female what Bear had been able to.
However Heavy is all right and Bear all wrong, sorry not in my book, not after the way BB handled this.
No one, whether I like them or not, should be forced against their will to be locked in a small room, with no definite deadline as to time for that, who has not threatened anyone physically directly.
I am actually surprised you can think that right in all honesty.
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I personally think your take on the situation is the distorted one. It was fairly obvious to me he went seeking a reaction and fight that night, hence him walking into the room and gloating that he would be sharing a bed with Chloe and then patronising Heavy putting his foot on his bed when he got upset over. He reaped what he sowed, same goes for him being locked in the DR if he didn't start smashing up the house they wouldn't have had to exclude him. Plus having to wait 10 or so minutes whilst they set up a bedroom shouldn't be a big ask for a grown adult.