[Ammi]

Originally Posted by hot2go

Both victims of their own making because of the industry they CHOOSE to be in ....I don't know weather shes worked on reality TV before but she does now so that's where I stop regarding her in the same way as a normal girl. Both her and Bear are prepared to sell their private lives for money and fame, which if fine and no different to everyone else in the house but she longer can be taken seriously IMO..... Normal people and heart broken people don't share their pain with strangers on a game show in front of millions of people.

..maybe it's appropriate to do so when you've seen the trust that you have in someone, betrayed on a gameshow so publicly as well...however it's spun, he betrayed her with complete disregard and then publicly 'dumped' her/and is a shabby human being for doing so, so her reactions as the victim can't really be criticised beyond that...and her reactions from the small amount we saw anyone were just of extreme hurt...

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..maybe it's appropriate to do so when you've seen the trust that you have in someone, betrayed on a gameshow so publicly as well...however it's spun, he betrayed her with complete disregard and then publicly 'dumped' her/and is a shabby human being for doing so, so her reactions as the victim can't really be criticised beyond that...and her reactions from the small amount we saw anyone were just of extreme hurt...

I don't agree ....it's never appropriate to air your personal life and personal pain on television unless you are just after fame or money and then it's deemed acceptable cause it comes with the territory...if she had integrity she would either walk away or deal with him and her pain in private when he leaves. She shouldn't be in there.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I don't agree ....it's never appropriate to air your personal life and personal pain on television unless you are just after fame or money and then it's deemed acceptable cause it comes with the territory...if she had integrity she would either walk away or deal with him and her pain in private when he leaves. She shouldn't be in there.

....and yet, Bear aired their personal life and relationship on TV and he aired her personal pain on TV for the 'fame and the fortune of it'...it must be presumed..?...or the cruelty of it/the spite of it/the thoughtlessness of it/the lack of thought of any other person but himself of it..?...the pick and choose of it, really ..and as always with his girlfriend as with all others over the last few weeks, her world is reactions to the selfish actions of Le Bear because that's what he forces on people....he hurts people and he laughs and then says 'just cos' if questioned... that really is not a good person and the irony of him feeling such need to 'bring out the bad' in others....

[rusticgal]

This thread is too funny....

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Ammi

....and yet, Bear aired their personal life and relationship on TV and he aired her personal pain on TV for the 'fame and the fortune of it'...it must be presumed..?...or the cruelty of it/the spite of it/the thoughtlessness of it/the lack of thought of any other person but himself of it..?...the pick and choose of it, really ..and as always with his girlfriend as with all others over the last few weeks, her world is reactions to the selfish actions of Le Bear because that's what he forces on people....he hurts people and he laughs and then says 'just cos' if questioned... that really is not a good person and the irony of him feeling such need to 'bring out the bad' in others....

Wise words Ammi... and all true.