[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

It is a shame that she is hurt but this particular girl does seem to like bad boys of reality TV so you'd think she'd have an inkling what she was getting into. She dated Gaz Beadle for over a year and he has no respect for women and will have sex with literally anyone willing. She met Bear on Ex on the beach a show she was on because of Gaz. Surely she knows the score with these boys.

[power2thepeople]

Originally Posted by hot2go

Both victims of their own making because of the industry they CHOOSE to be in ....I don't know weather shes worked on reality TV before but she does now so that's where I stop regarding her in the same way as a normal girl. Both her and Bear are prepared to sell their private lives for money and fame, which if fine and no different to everyone else in the house but she longer can be taken seriously IMO..... Normal people and heart broken people don't share their pain with strangers on a game show in front of millions of people.

Agreed. Anyone who thinks she is 'done' with him needs to read her twatter feed. She will be joining him in the villa real soon, along with GS Gaz. As others have said here, this is nothing but Ex On The Beach promotion. He features in the advert in between then she waltzes in? The producers of these shows are all in each others pockets. Orchestrated promotion for a Z list swinging show. Watch her fall into his arms in the villa within hours. The irony here is there may be only one real victim and that's Chloe. She isn't part of Towie/GS/Ex brigade.....Yet.

[jet]

Originally Posted by jaxie

It is a shame that she is hurt but this particular girl does seem to like bad boys of reality TV so you'd think she'd have an inkling what she was getting into. She dated Gaz Beadle for over a year and he has no respect for women and will have sex with literally anyone willing. She met Bear on Ex on the beach a show she was on because of Gaz. Surely she knows the score with these boys.

Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, but that doesn't excuse Bear's actions towards her in any way, shape or form.

[Cal.]

I don't believe he's getting sympathy from this - he's the one who dumped her on TV.

[Absorption]

Did she stick her finger up his @rse?

That might explain his tears (although apparently for him they would be ones of joy).

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Absorption

Did she stick her finger up his @rse?

That might explain his tears (although apparently for him they would be ones of joy).

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by hot2go

I don't agree ....it's never appropriate to air your personal life and personal pain on television unless you are just after fame or money and then it's deemed acceptable cause it comes with the territory...if she had integrity she would either walk away or deal with him and her pain in private when he leaves. She shouldn't be in there.

....and yet, Bear aired their personal life and relationship on TV and he aired her personal pain on TV for the 'fame and the fortune of it'...it must be presumed..?...or the cruelty of it/the spite of it/the thoughtlessness of it/the lack of thought of any other person but himself of it..?...the pick and choose of it, really ..and as always with his girlfriend as with all others over the last few weeks, her world is reactions to the selfish actions of Le Bear because that's what he forces on people....he hurts people and he laughs and then says 'just cos' if questioned... that really is not a good person and the irony of him feeling such need to 'bring out the bad' in others....

[rusticgal]

This thread is too funny....

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by jennyjuniper

I agree.They are both used to acting a part in reality crap, so tears from numpty bear mean jack s.... IF Lily was genuine AND a self respecting woman, after seeing her 'boyfriend' slobbering all over something like Chloe, she would have said END OF. No explanations needed or wanted.
As she has presumably been paid for the OK interview and her appearance on CBB, one would assume that she is just as much of a fame w...e as bear,lewis and marnie.

My thoughts exactly Jennyjuniper, the whole lot has looked staged to me this series.
Reality show participants (it would choke me to call them stars) go on a reality show and act out their normal chavvy parts.
Shame BB has lowered its standards this far.

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Ammi

....and yet, Bear aired their personal life and relationship on TV and he aired her personal pain on TV for the 'fame and the fortune of it'...it must be presumed..?...or the cruelty of it/the spite of it/the thoughtlessness of it/the lack of thought of any other person but himself of it..?...the pick and choose of it, really ..and as always with his girlfriend as with all others over the last few weeks, her world is reactions to the selfish actions of Le Bear because that's what he forces on people....he hurts people and he laughs and then says 'just cos' if questioned... that really is not a good person and the irony of him feeling such need to 'bring out the bad' in others....

Wise words Ammi... and all true.

[alex_front2]

Originally Posted by Clootie Dumpling

A cynical attempt by BB producers to demonstrate what a rounded character Bear is by manufacturing opportunities for him to reveal what a staggering range of emotions he has, etc. ...

Agree.

Like button needed here.

Prior to this Bear was a one dimensional cartoon manchild troll. To win big Brother a winner needs an emotional narrative even BB15 Helen had one eg worrying about son, doubts about Ash, fearing being misunderstood, jealousy with Ashleigh etc. BB17 Jason had the Charlie love issue to contend with. Bear had none as he hiding his emotions behind various masks and face paints.

[johnx]

Great work from the producers.The buffon thought he could coast through with no consequences for his appalling behaviour.But BB will eventually find your weak spot and have you blubbing your eyes out.

[Daffodil]

Before we get carried away with maudlin sentimentality let us just remember that scene of Chloe straddling him while he jigged up and down with her enormous knockers in his face. Class ...... not

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Daffodil

Before we get carried away with maudlin sentimentality let us just remember that scene of Chloe straddling him while he jigged up and down with her enormous knockers in his face. Class ...... not

Oh Daffodil,I really wanted to forget that image,Bear is the sort who would shag anything with a pulse,

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Great timing, completely unintentional I am sure

And having Chloe Goldman (another cast member from that season) on bots a few times and on shows on other channels to talk about Bears behaviour is also another unintentional coincidence.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Jonnii

I can't believe people are feeling sorry for him and audience on BOTS were going "aaaawww" when they played it... seriously!? He cheated on her then announced he was dumping her on National TV.

Serves him right. If I was her I'd kick his balls into his sternum.

I didn't feel sorry for him, and he didn't feel bad when he cheated or dumped her, only when he had to face the consequences. If he was upset about anything. It was about being confronted by the truth!

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Oh Daffodil,I really wanted to forget that image,Bear is the sort who would shag anything with a pulse,

Yes!

[rubymoo]

Originally Posted by Jonnii

I can't believe people are feeling sorry for him and audience on BOTS were going "aaaawww" when they played it... seriously!? He cheated on her then announced he was dumping her on National TV.

Serves him right. If I was her I'd kick his balls into his sternum.

Yep, what a prize plank, i have no sympathy for him what so ever.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by Riley.

Where's the video?

here the tonight trailer one