[Ammi]

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

[Santa's NaughtiNess]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

..I'd like to think that on some level that he has thought of how his actions and behaviour have hurt others so much in all of this Vanessa and given some thought beyond himself and his own amusement but I fear not sadly...and the enabling that he's getting through his 'entertainment' won't help either...he may win the show and probably will because he would be pretty poor not to have had a show devoted to him and can't even come out on top, there but as a human being, he's a loser in every way for me...

[jet]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I'd like to think that on some level that he has thought of how his actions and behaviour have hurt others so much in all of this Vanessa and given some thought beyond himself and his own amusement but I fear not sadly...and the enabling that he's getting through his 'entertainment' won't help either...he may win the show and probably will because he would be pretty poor not to have had a show devoted to him and can't even come out on top, there but as a human being, he's a loser in every way for me...

Exactly what I've been thinking.

[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He does feel bad and knows he's done wrong. He's still young and we all make mistakes. God knows I've made plenty at his age.

He's in his mid twenties, not a teenager, cheating isn't a mistake, it's a conscious decision he took and he broke a girls heart in the process, there's really no defending that.

[jet]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

I stopped tuning in quite a while back and have only been watching on eviction nights, and even then just the eviction bit/last 15 mins or so, but get the gist of things by having a browse in here now and then...and I sometimes watch a bit of live feed. But I couldn't put myself through nearly an hour of that BS every night if they paid me to do it.
I just want to say how much your words prove that there are people who recognise how awful Bear is and how awful this show is because of him Ammi.
It's hard to see how so many people have fallen for his form of'entertainment' and are revelling in it.

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...from the little bit that we saw/the shakiness of her voice and her emotions/it was heart-breaking.....how worthless that poor girl must feel, how he's made her feel...not only cheating on her/'dumping' her but all so publicly on National TV as well...no respect or thought for her/for Chloe or for anyone other than himself and his amusement ..he really is so grim in character, there is very little to find any level of understanding or any level of sympathising with him....

It is a shame that she is hurt but this particular girl does seem to like bad boys of reality TV so you'd think she'd have an inkling what she was getting into. She dated Gaz Beadle for over a year and he has no respect for women and will have sex with literally anyone willing. She met Bear on Ex on the beach a show she was on because of Gaz. Surely she knows the score with these boys.

[jet]

Originally Posted by jaxie

It is a shame that she is hurt but this particular girl does seem to like bad boys of reality TV so you'd think she'd have an inkling what she was getting into. She dated Gaz Beadle for over a year and he has no respect for women and will have sex with literally anyone willing. She met Bear on Ex on the beach a show she was on because of Gaz. Surely she knows the score with these boys.

Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't, but that doesn't excuse Bear's actions towards her in any way, shape or form.