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Originally Posted by Jamie89

I wouldn't personally but I agree with the pov that the majority of blame should go to the person who's married. It think regardless of morality, because even if both were equally wrong morally (which personally I don't think they would be, but lets just say for arguments sake they are) there's still the issue of commitment... the single person isn't breaking a commitment they've made, the married person is. And yes they're both willfully hurting someone, but it's the married person who is supposed to care about them and have a responsibility towards them.

I don't really see how there's a difference in how they've behaved morally. Sure, one has broken a commitment (I don't dispute that), but the other has willingly partaken in that and so can't really have much of a problem with the idea of someone doing that (until it happens to them, I presume) so I just can't personally place them on any higher of a moral footing.

You can't cheat all by yourself. There has to be someone else on the other end and that's why I think that other person deserves to be held accountable just as much (providing they knew, of course).