[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Dollface

That's exactly how I feel Luke (HI BTW long time no see!) I'd feel really guilty but if I had feeling for them I know the feelings would take over and turn me into a heartless lustful bitch BUT if kids were involved then I know that would detour me away from the bloke because I aint about to wreck a family. And before anyone says "OH BUT YOU'D HAPPILY WRECK A MARRIAGE YOU SWINE" I don't think wrecking a marriage is as bad because people break up ALL the time

Just out of interest (and this isn't me judging you btw or anything) but say you were married for 5 years with some guy and a women co-worker of his who knew fine well he was married to you lusted after him so badly and eventually got him into bed.

Now despite the fact your husband is clearly in the wrong and the ultimate wrongdoer in this affair let's put that aside and think about the woman for one second. How would you ultimately feel about her knowing that she lusted after your husband and despite knowing he was married to you made every effort she could to get him in the sack. Would you shrug your shoulders and feel 'ah well it's fair game at the end of the day' or would you feel some sort of resentment towards her for her actions?