[Josy]

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm sorry Jamie but it's happened to me where I have posted a response and it's was deleted, this happened in a tit for tat situation, I reported it directly to Josy so I am not lying.

This is what mostly happens unless there are no other mods online and the mod in the discussion has to step up I'm not saying it happens 100% but the majority of the time it does.

You see, just another case of people not knowing what's going on behind the scenes.

[Josy]

Also this thread is again becoming quite uncomfortable with a pack mentality against one person, i've said before we wont have this regardless of who its aimed at!

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

He wouldn't do it if he didn't get something out of it. If you share similar opinions you aren't likely to be on the receiving end of it, but for those that are because they have differing opinions they have a better understanding of the situation. You have to have been there and all that.

Just because I haven't personally had disagreements with Dezzy, it doesn't invalidate anything I was saying in that post, or mean that the only opinions that matter on the subject are the ones that are anti-Dezzy.

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Baiting is against the rules and he does do that quite a lot. Never seen him banned though.

Have you reported the posts where you feel he was baiting? If so and nothing was done then wouldn't it actually be the case that it's either the other mods who weren't doing their job correctly, or Dezzy wasn't in fact baiting.

Originally Posted by Cherie

I'm sorry Jamie but it's happened to me where I have posted a response and it's was deleted, this happened in a tit for tat situation, I reported it directly to Josy so I am not lying.


Maybe the way forward and so there is no conflict of interest if a mod is heavily involved in a discussion, another mod needs to moderate the thread, I think this might have been suggested earlier but it seems a way around the issue

I don't what that situation or post was about but for the most part it's clear that posts he disagrees with don't get deleted... a lot of SD wouldn't exist otherwise I think as long as everything is visible to the other mods (so the stuff we don't see like deleted posts etc) then doesn't that take away the need for that suggestion? Because everything can be checked and people can report if they feel there's been foul play. It's not that it's a bad suggestion, I just don't know if there's always enough mods online to ensure it would always happen.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Jamie89

Just because I haven't personally had disagreements with Dezzy, it doesn't invalidate anything I was saying in that post, or mean that the only opinions that matter on the subject are the ones that are anti-Dezzy.



Have you reported the posts where you feel he was baiting? If so and nothing was done then wouldn't it actually be the case that it's either the other mods who weren't doing their job correctly, or Dezzy wasn't in fact baiting.



I don't what that situation or post was about but for the most part it's clear that posts he disagrees with don't get deleted... a lot of SD wouldn't exist otherwise I think as long as everything is visible to the other mods (so the stuff we don't see like deleted posts etc) then doesn't that take away the need for that suggestion? Because everything can be checked and people can report if they feel there's been foul play. It's not that it's a bad suggestion, I just don't know if there's always enough mods online to ensure it would always happen.

Excuse me but when Dezzy keeps calling me another name in his posts in an attempt to bait me there is no confusion. With respect you don't know what you are talking about.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Excuse me but when Dezzy keeps calling me another name in his posts in an attempt to bait me there is no confusion. With respect you don't know what you are talking about.

Did you report those posts?

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Excuse me but when Dezzy keeps calling me another name in his posts in an attempt to bait me there is no confusion. With respect you don't know what you are talking about.

What I'm talking about? I asked you a question that you didn't answer, and it's relevant to this post about him calling you names too ^

Originally Posted by Jamie89

Have you reported the posts where you feel he was baiting? If so and nothing was done then wouldn't it actually be the case that it's either the other mods who weren't doing their job correctly, or Dezzy wasn't in fact baiting.

[Withano]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Go find them yourself, and stop calling people liars

I searched through every single one of all the mods' posts before posting that.

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Josy

Did you report those posts?

Not via the report button, but I did using contact details. I have asked him not to do this , but he continues to do so if we are in disagreement about something. If that isn't baiting I don't know what is.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Brillopad

Not via the report button, but I did using contact details. I have asked him not to do this , but he continues to do so if we are in disagreement about something. If that isn't baiting I don't know what is.

You mean you sent a message via contact us? only myself, James and Vicky receive those emails I cant recall seeing that, why wouldn't you use the report button if it was something that was happening a lot and also I don't think this has actually happened for a while though you say continues to do so?

[Brillopad]

Originally Posted by Josy

You mean you sent a message via contact us? only myself, James and Vicky receive those emails I cant recall seeing that, why wouldn't you use the report button if it was something that was happening a lot and also I don't think this has actually happened for a while though you say continues to do so?

I was told by another member that the best way to do this was via the report button which I planned to do but it hasn't happened since I was banned a week or so ago due to a similar incident. I just want to know it isn't going to happen again as it is provocative.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

I'm almost tempted to phrase all my infractions as Rupaul styled critiques from now on.

'Marsh, you wanted to serve a high sea fisherman's fantasy with that last post but not even a minnow would take that bait. I'm sorry my dear but you are infracted.'

[thesheriff443]

I see my post got deleted

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I see my post got deleted

Don't be so bloody rude in future young man.

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

Don't be so bloody rude in future young man.

Don't think rude is the word I would use more like truthful.

[Jake.]

"Truthful" = an excuse to be rude

[MB.]

I guess we'll have to ask our fellow forum member, the rude

[MB.]

Please note: me posting in here is not a declaration of my adoration for LT

[Josy]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I see my post got deleted

Yes I see it did but just to clarify what I posted wasn't a threat it was a fact

[Ross.]

Originally Posted by MB.

I guess we'll have to ask our fellow forum member, the rude

Me

[MB.]

Excuse me that was kind of funny depending what mood you're in

[Tom4784]

Just to address some of the points levied at me since I've been to work.

It's very easy to seperate posting as a member and doing mod stuff. The people I like and dislike as a member don't get special treatment when it comes to modding, I'd go as far as saying that I infract people I consider friends more often than I do the people who have issues with me. It was especially true the last time I was ganged up on, I was made to feel like I couldn't do any modding because the same group of people that are complaining about me now would complain about any and all infractions that came their way like it was my fault so I made a point to not moderate them for a while and leave it to the other mods but that's not fair on them and it isn't fair on me. I am a good mod and I won't be made to feel lesser simply because people have issues with my personality.

When it comes to modding, everyone gets treated the same. Believe it or don't, it doesn't change the facts.

[Ross.]

YASSSSS Lucas is home

[Ross.]

Nice Dezzy was unsettling so he needs to remain a sarcastic bitch

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Josy

This is what mostly happens unless there are no other mods online and the mod in the discussion has to step up I'm not saying it happens 100% but the majority of the time it does.

You see, just another case of people not knowing what's going on behind the scenes.

What???? I'm not talking about deleting abusive posts, I'm talking about deleting perfectly valid posts, I see the wagons are circling as usual, as I said a few pages back reporting anything in this situation is a pointless exercise, its funny you have total recall of BOTs pm to you given he left the forum yonks ago but have no recall of my complaint which you were going to pass to James ...


I've still got the pm in my sent folder Josy 3rd May 2016

[Withano]

I think, tbh, in conclusion, at the end of it all, lets move on.