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Originally Posted by Kazanne

I know disabled people ,my mom looked after one until he passed away in October, he was always treated well and helped as much as he needed it

Oh this changes everything! Your mum "looked after one". I didn't realise that you had a family member who had cared for "one of those". You probably know all about it, then. I for one will be much more comfortable deferring to your extensive knowledge and experience of "those" from now on.