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Originally Posted by Slevin

i would say the bully card is the most popular these days

We have 4 non whites in the house this year,they have ALL thrown the race card already and were only 10 days in ,Sukh and Imran threw it in 1st couple of days

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Jason.

Makosi, Vanessa, Gina

Originally Posted by Lilbro

+ Adjoa

Alison

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

I cant believe I ever thought black girls were unfairly labeled as aggressive... turns out the ones i thought were nice were actually just passive aggressive.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Tozzie

because it gets on some peoples tits when colour comes into it, like it or not some coloured people have chips on their shoulder about colour and bring the subject up themselves, even that black bloke on BBots said she shouldn't have done that

But how would you know what experiences a black person has in everyday life? Just because you don't personally see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

[Beso]

I deal with a lot of nigerian women at work and they all come across as aggresive when they are not being aggresive.

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

But how would you know what experiences a black person has in everyday life? Just because you don't personally see it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

We don't know what experiences a white person has in everyday life either, but you dont here them bleating on

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

We don't know what experiences a white person has in everyday life either, but you dont here them bleating on

I am a white person so yeah I know how it feels to be a white woman and I know how other people treat me as a white woman

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

I am a white person so yeah I know how it feels to be a white woman and I know how other people treat me as a white woman

If you have a vile attitude regardless of colour ,you will one day be met with it back ,and it doesn't go down well,Im not saying you've got a vile attitude lol

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

If you have a vile attitude regardless of colour ,you will one day be met with it back ,and it doesn't go down well,Im not saying you've got a vile attitude lol

Ok but that isn't the point I was making

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Originally Posted by Niamh.

Ok but that isn't the point I was making

My point is when you talk to people like **** REGARDLESS of colour of skin, one day you will get your just deserts ,white people don't have a race card to throw in

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I am a white person so yeah I know how it feels to be a white woman and I know how other people treat me as a white woman

In summer I go pink but i get treated ok all the time, white or pink. Most aggressive blacks use the race card like free passes just because its become a bit of a trend. Modern society sides with the intolerance of racist issues so its easy to bring up if you feel you are loosing an argument. is it the colour of my skin that offends you is the fav. we dont need to bring it up, they do. Most blacks have learned to live without race issues and most whites shy away from these issues but there are allways the idiots in society that drag up colour, weight, in fact anything to gain an edge, thats life im afraid.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

My point is when you talk to people like **** REGARDLESS of colour of skin, one day you will get your just deserts ,white people don't have a race card to throw in

Again you're missing the point I was making when replying to Tozzie

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Again you're missing the point I was making when replying to Tozzie

Im missing it as well. I am Irish like you and when I came to england yrs ago i got the usual Paddy and spud basher, but when things got hot i got the thick mick handle, that hurt. So being white does not exclude you from race issues.

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Originally Posted by sampvt

In summer I go pink but i get treated ok all the time, white or pink. Most aggressive blacks use the race card like free passes just because its become a bit of a trend. Modern society sides with the intolerance of racist issues so its easy to bring up if you feel you are loosing an argument. is it the colour of my skin that offends you is the fav. we dont need to bring it up, they do. Most blacks have learned to live without race issues and most whites shy away from these issues but there are allways the idiots in society that drag up colour, weight, in fact anything to gain an edge, thats life im afraid.

Briliant post Some use their skin colour as a weapon

[Withano]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Spotted that one yesterday, clearly a banned member ^^

That would explain why they told me that we finally agreed on something

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by sampvt

Im missing it as well. I am Irish like you and when I came to england yrs ago i got the usual Paddy and spud basher, but when things got hot i got the thick mick handle, that hurt. So being white does not exclude you from race issues.

You're actually making my point Sam. That's exactly what i mean, yours and my experiences as an Irish person in England would have been totally different to an English persons (certainly a few years back not so much now though I think from my own experiences) That's all I was trying to say really. You can't tell someone that they don't feel stereotyped if you've never experienced what they do on a day to day basis

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Originally Posted by Withano

That would explain why they told me that we finally agreed on something

Another one slipped through the net ,come on mods keep up

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

We don't know what experiences a white person has in everyday life either, but you dont here them bleating on

....if Sukhvinder called Rebecca aggressive she wouldnt call out Sukhvnder for being racist...it works both ways. Why does the race card only ever come up when black/Asian people are called out for something. White people are a race but I have never seen them use that card when they are being shouted at.

[bots]

There is perception of being aggressive through accent and then there is actual aggression identified by content, delivery and body language. My reading of it was a tick in the box for all 3, it had nothing to do with anything else

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rusticgal

....if Sukhvinder called Rebecca aggressive she wouldnt call out Sukhvnder for being racist...it works both ways. Why does the race card only ever come up when black/Asian people are called out for something. White people are a race but I have never seen them use that card when they are being shouted at.

Because there is no stereotype saying white women are aggressive Also, she never actually said you're racist to Rebecca

[Samm]

Originally Posted by *mazedsalv**

Thought it was awful and uncalled for.

Jeez, are people saying that we didn't call Helen aggressive because she's white? Helen was aggressive as **** and she was seen as that from Day 2. Nothing to do with whether she was white or black.

In this series alone, we have heard of people calling Chanelle, Joe and Tom aggressive too. Are they black? No.

Effing race card, such a poor thing to bring out. I would understand if something like "well your a stereotypical angry black woman" was said, but it came from nowhere.

Does this mean I am never allowed to call a black person aggressive in the chance I may be called racist? I'll call any Dom, Dick or Harry aggressive if they are aggressive.

You're missing the point, Helen won, if Helen was black she wouldn't of won for a fact

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Originally Posted by rusticgal

....if Sukhvinder called Rebecca aggressive she wouldnt call out Sukhvnder for being racist...it works both ways. Why does the race card only ever come up when black/Asian people are called out for something. White people are a race but I have never seen them use that card when they are being shouted at.

EXACTLY Rusty !! this is my point, white people don't have a card to throw in ,if someone doesn't like us ,so be it ,we move on ....but thats the not the case with non white, they always claim doesn't like them because of their colour when really its because they are an arrogant, mouthy twat

[ethanjames]

well she isn't wrong? if she was white she would be labelled as a queen but because she is black she is labelled as aggressive

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Originally Posted by Samm

You're missing the point, Helen won, if Helen was black she wouldn't of won for a fact

Great British Bake Off

Masterchef

Strictly

No non white winners ?

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Originally Posted by ethanjames

well she isn't wrong? if she was white she would be labelled as a queen but because she is black she is labelled as aggressive

Its the opposite on here, always has been