[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

You could have said this without being hostile

You'll get over it.

Also, why are you kicking up a fuss about this when you don't seem too bothered when people call other members catladies? I'm pretty sure you have even used that phrase in the past too.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Nicky91

Lateysha wasn't hated that much, Chanelle is getting more undeserved hate this time

The Lateysha hate was absoloutely disgusting. People slating her as a parent, not even as a role model as Lotan has been I am talking full on 'fat bitch needs to go look after her kids' level and 'bet her daughter is so proud of the fat cow'.

I love Chanelle but she doesn't get it half as bad as Lateysha last year. I hated the forum at points it was that horrible to see people attacking her as a parent.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

The Lateysha hate was absoloutely disgusting. People slating her as a parent, not even as a role model as Lotan has been I am talking full on 'fat bitch needs to go look after her kids' level and 'bet her daughter is so proud of the fat cow'.

I love Chanelle but she doesn't get it half as bad as Lateysha last year. I hated the forum at points it was that horrible to see people attacking her as a parent.

why what type of parent is she?

[Jordan.]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

You'll get over it.

Also, why are you kicking up a fuss about this when you don't seem too bothered when people call other members catladies? I'm pretty sure you have even used that phrase in the past too.

Because cat lady isn't something that offends me so why would I report it? that's up to other members to do. Not sure why you're now trying to come for me just because I wasn't happy with an offensive post in this thread.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by reece(:

I'd say the Lateysha hate last year was worse

Lets not forget the vile stuff said about Jason when he outed her ,it works both ways.comments like "I wish he would die" how over the top is that ?

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

why what type of parent is she?

When she was on Big Brother none of you knew (myself included) but since it has finished and I have seen Lateysha with her baby she is a fantastic parent, Wynter adores her.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Lets not forget the vile stuff said about Jason when he outed her ,it works both ways.comments like "I wish he would die" how over the top is that ?

Off the cuff things said in shock while should be dealt with are just that - things said in shock. The nasty posts about Lateysha and her weight and her parenting were series long as you are well aware.

[Vicky.]

I remember the Lateysha parenting comments. It tends to happen a lot when a parent is on BB. But its worse if the parent is a mother...having said that Aaron got a lot of hate about his son too. Wish people would keep kids out of it tbh. BB is hardly a place where you need to be setting an example for your kids or anything so not sure why its always brought up. I remember a load of comments when teesh stripped off to her knickers about 'what if her kid is watching'. Well, her child was very young so unlikely to be watching anyway and again...BB is **** all to do with parenting.

People are people aswell as parents. You do not need to be in 'parent mode' 24/7, especially when your child is nowhere near you

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

Off the cuff things said in shock while should be dealt with are just that - things said in shock. The nasty posts about Lateysha and her weight and her parenting were series long as you are well aware.

The hate about Jason was not just a one off.

This post is an example of how people only see/care when it affects a housemate they like actually. Its all fair game if they dislike a housemate, all hate is fine, even ridiculous OTT hate like death threats is excused

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by Jordan.

Because cat lady isn't something that offends me so why would I report it? that's up to other members to do. Not sure why you're now trying to come for me just because I wasn't happy with an offensive post in this thread.

Because calling people catladies is exactly the type of baiting that you spoke out against. It's hypocritical.

This whole forum is a god damn hypocritical mess tbh, we get told repeatedly that we need to be tougher but the people saying that only want us to get tough on people they don't happen to like, if THEY just so happen to get infracted for the same thing then we're being biased or we're ignoring something or some other bull**** reason. People only want us to take a hard stance when it benefits them.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

I remember the Lateysha parenting comments. It tends to happen a lot when a parent is on BB. But its worse if the parent is a mother...having said that Aaron got a lot of hate about his son too. Wish people would keep kids out of it tbh. BB is hardly a p[lace where you need to be setting an example for your kids or anything so not sure why its always brought up. I remember a load of comments when teesh stripped off to her k ickers about 'what if her kid is watching'. Well, her child was very young so unlikely to be watching anyway and again...BB is **** all to do with parenting.

It was the same with Nicola and Kim last year and the same with Lotan,people saying his child might be watching when I doubt it as he is very young.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

The hate about Jason was not just a one off.

This post is an example of how people only see/care when it affects a housemate they like actually. Its all fair game if they dislike a housemate, all hate is fine, even ridiculous OTT hate like death threats is excused

No it wasn't,he was dragged through this forum and called some horrible stuff,I remember it well as he was my fave,and it was made all the more sweeter when he won.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

It was the same with Nicola and Kim last year and the same with Lotan,people saying his child might be watching when I doubt it as he is very young.

Yup. But if the person getting hate for their parenting is someone posters dislike, its all fine and/or ignored.

As dezzy said its all so hypocritical. We are expected to be tough on people that some members dislike, but it has to be applied across the board. And when it is, then all of a sudden we are too harsh.

Posts that are obvious baiting are ignored aslong as they are baiting the 'right' people. And so on.

Modding is bloody annoying on season tbh. But you get used to always being in the wrong

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

The hate about Jason was not just a one off.

This post is an example of how people only see/care when it affects a housemate they like actually. Its all fair game if they dislike a housemate, all hate is fine, even ridiculous OTT hate like death threats is excused

In fairness I never said hoping anyone dies is ok, I believe If I had said I hope he dies I would have deserved a punishment. That said Kazanne mentioned one incident and people were shocked Lateysha was evicted such a move was bound to cause people to react.

The Lateysha hate was literally over the smallest thing, all she need do was talk and you could expect at least one person to call her a name over her apperance or parenting skills.

[Headie]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Because calling people catladies is exactly the type of baiting that you spoke out against. It's hypocritical.

This whole forum is a god damn hypocritical mess tbh, we get told repeatedly that we need to be tougher but the people saying that only want us to get tough on people they don't happen to like, if THEY just so happen to get infracted for the same thing then we're being biased or we're ignoring something or some other bull**** reason. People only want us to take a hard stance when it benefits them.

Can't speak for others, but my use of the word "catladies" is reference to the Facebook crowd who go OTT with their hate comments on FB, not a reference to members on here. I never use it in relation to this forum.

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Can't speak for others, but my use of the word "catladies" is reference to the Facebook crowd who go OTT with their hate comments on FB, not a reference to members on here. I never use it in relation to this forum.

I agree with this.

[Cal.]

I thought it was a term for the Facebook crowd that hate all the good hms and are responsible for all the bad voting results.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yup. But if the person getting hate for their parenting is someone posters dislike, its all fine and/or ignored.

As dezzy said its all so hypocritical. We are expected to be tough on people that some members dislike, but it has to be applied across the board. And when it is, then all of a sudden we are too harsh.

Posts that are obvious baiting are ignored aslong as they are baiting the 'right' people. And so on.

Modding is bloody annoying on season tbh. But you get used to always being in the wrong

I can only imagine the frustration,it must feel like a playground sometimes,for what it's worth,you are doing a sterling job.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Amy Jade

In fairness I never said hoping anyone dies is ok, I believe If I had said I hope he dies I would have deserved a punishment. That said Kazanne mentioned one incident and people were shocked Lateysha was evicted such a move was bound to cause people to react.

The Lateysha hate was literally over the smallest thing, all she need do was talk and you could expect at least one person to call her a name over her apperance or parenting skills.

All hate seems to be over the smallest thing tbh. For any housemate. So many get sooo into the show and in a way thats good as otherwise this forum would have died ages ago.

I just find the hypocrisy amusing tbh. One of the things we have to do as mods is to see everything the same, if that makes sense. So we notice all hate, all insults, all OTT stuff and so on, no matter which housemate is the target of it. But as members, you do not need to worry about stuff like that so most members seem to only ever see/care when a housemate they like gets hate.

There are exceptions to this of course. Withano, for example seems to notice everything and is willing to point out when a housemate he dislikes is being unfairly targetted or when someone he likes is being praised simply for breathing

This is not an insult btw, before I was made a mod I was exactly the same, I only ever reported stuff that was negative about housemates I liked (Freddie, as it happened) and would not give a **** if someone was OTT about one I couldn't stand (Lisa)

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Can't speak for others, but my use of the word "catladies" is reference to the Facebook crowd who go OTT with their hate comments on FB, not a reference to members on here. I never use it in relation to this forum.

Catladies is a mass insult and has been used to insult people on here before. The term causes issues every year and this year it has been worse so is being deleted/infracted. Its basically used to insult anyone who likes a housemate that the forum does not. When an eviction result comes in too...'voters are utter idiots and only thinking with their penises saving X' or something is also against the rules as its a mass insult to people who vote, which includes people on the forum.

[Gstar]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Can't speak for others, but my use of the word "catladies" is reference to the Facebook crowd who go OTT with their hate comments on FB, not a reference to members on here. I never use it in relation to this forum.

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[T*]

Originally Posted by Hayden

Can't speak for others, but my use of the word "catladies" is reference to the Facebook crowd who go OTT with their hate comments on FB, not a reference to members on here. I never use it in relation to this forum.

Originally Posted by Cal.

I agree with this.

Originally Posted by Cal.

I thought it was a term for the Facebook crowd that hate all the good hms and are responsible for all the bad voting results.

I also thought this

[Crimson Dynamo]

yes and SCUM means the person is lovely.....

so good news for Lotan

[Ashley.]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

It's the same every year though

Ah alright. You're allowed to call young women "slags" and "*****s", because that's how it's always been. It's not on. It's disgusting. You're supposed to be setting an example.

[Amy Jade]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

yes and SCUM means the person is lovely.....

so good news for Lotan

Calling someone scum for actions inside the house is perfectly fine surely (maybe Dezzy or Vicky can confirm?)

Kayleigh was one of my early faves but threatening to kill people is a scummy move and she got dragged for it.

I find men threatening to physically hurt women scummy hence I believe Lotan is scum.