[Vicky.]

C tbh. If you haven't spoken for that long then you aren't exactly close. I assume she is close to her daughter as you mention possibly upsetting her. I would stay well away, and maybe go sign the memorial book or something another day. Are you considering going to ease your guilt over not seeing her for so long, or for other reasons? The only reason I can think of is the guilt thing (sorry if I am wrong) so basically you are going to make yourself feel better...if that makes sense.