[user104658]

...... one of the only things I actually like about my job is that there's no chance of me encountering anyone under the age of 18 .

But yeah, I get it . I love my kids and I like going out to eat with them etc... but today I went out with th'lady for breakfast at a café after the school run and it was just lovely. Quiet, peaceful, no children . It's the first time we've done something like that for literally years (as youngest has only just started full time school).