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Originally Posted by AnnieK

I don't think anyone can answer that question honestly, particularly how they would feel. I have a 7 year old son who I love unconditionally. If he came home telling me he felt he wanted to transition, I would absolutely do everything in my power to get the support and information he needed to begin the journey and support him 100%' HOWEVER, I do not know how I would actually feel about it, I could give you lip service and tell you I would feel nothing or happy etc....but I honestly don't know. I would hope there is a support network for any parent facing this with their children too as it affects the lives of anyone close to a transitioning person. They have to change their whole perceptions too.

Thanks, I probably phrased that question incorrectly. I should of probably asked how you think you'd react.

I have a close friend who went through this with her then 16 year old daughter. As a child she was very girly but she became quite boyish around puberty and then went on to suffer massive depressive bouts and even attempted suicide. When he (and I call him 'he' because that's what I believe he is) told his parents, they, just like you say you would, fully supported him but they both had to go for therapy because, and this is what their therapist told them, they had to go through the grieving process of saying goodbye to their only daughter.

I think I would feel anxious. Anxious because of what they had ahead of them. The stigma, the rejection, not only from the public but from their extended family and friends. I would also morn the lost hope of future grandchildren. You're right, there is a grieving process for parents, even those who fully support the transition.