[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

You think that people are saying one thing but meaning another?... That's a very paranoid attitude, I'm not for a second suggesting you aimed this at me but rest assured I'm NOT in the habit of saying the opposite of what I mean... What I say is 99.9% of the time EXACTLY what I mean.

For clarification the post you made in relation to 'vitriolic' comments when I asked you for an example you QUOTED me... That might have been where I got the impression you were suggesting your reference included me.

I'm not going to apologise for your misleading accusation.
There are not that many people so deeply involved in this discussion that share my opinion but as you've stated categorically it isn't me I'll let you jab your little pointy finger at someone else.

tbf this is levied at people a lot in different discussions on TiBB so it should come as no surprise really

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Cherie

tbf this is levied at people a lot in different discussions on TiBB so it should come as no surprise really

It's a surprise to me here, I thought people had been very heartfelt in their views, you included.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

It's a surprise to me here, I thought people had been very heartfelt in their views, you included.

yep, in fact pretty much all the women in here seem to share the exact same view which on any subject is almost unheard of, that in itself should make it more obvious that our concerns are coming from a genuine place

[jaxie]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

yep, in fact pretty much all the women in here seem to share the exact same view which on any subject is almost unheard of, that in itself should make it more obvious that our concerns are coming from a genuine place

In a way that makes all the trying to shut us down and attacking comments even more upsetting. Because it's a clear to many that there is something here across the board with women and some seem to try to belittle us for it.