[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

https://www.irishtimes.com/news/crim...nday-1.3450089

Wonder what this is.



Defense team seem to want it kept quiet, whatever it is.

Ugh in a way I'd rather they didn't, would only make me more annoyed by it all, what we've seen is bad enough. I really want to know what that Juror posted though

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Ugh in a way I'd rather they didn't, would only make me more annoyed by it all, what we've seen is bad enough. I really want to know what that Juror posted though

Yeah I kind of feel the same tbh.

Theres been a rumour doing the rounds for a few weeks now that there was a further whatsapp chat that was more incriminating but it was deemed inadmissible. Of course that could be absolute bollocks...but whats for sure is that its something on one+ of the guys involved, and not anything on the woman.

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Vicky.

Yeah I kind of feel the same tbh.

Theres been a rumour doing the rounds for a few weeks now that there was a further whatsapp chat that was more incriminating but it was deemed inadmissible. Of course that could be absolute bollocks...but whats for sure is that its something on one+ of the guys involved, and not anything on the woman.

yeah sounds like it from that article alright

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Ugh in a way I'd rather they didn't, would only make me more annoyed by it all, what we've seen is bad enough. I really want to know what that Juror posted though

Let's be honest Niamh, you are more angry than annoyed, and that anger has emotion has come out in the form of contempt towards me.

I'm the man that found a fourteen year old walking a country road at 230 in the morning made her call her mum and stayed with her until her mum came to pick her up, her mum was in bits and so greatfull.

I'm the man that tells bouncers to get drunk girls a taxi because men are going up to them trying to get them to go back with them.

I'm the man that found a girl on another country road in bits after a taxi driver tryed it on with her and I took her home

I'm a decent man, just because I'm not a nodding dig in this thread and come with a different view point don't make me an arshole.

[Ammi]

..I understand the awareness of ‘personal vulnerabilities’ in situations...but sadly in society that’s often placed placed and totally focused on the female..and rape trials especially are extremely difficult for ‘victims’ as we know...which is why many are not reported...or reluctant to report...but as a non guilty verdict was reached in this case...we as a society would assume the ‘victims’ to also be the rugby players...yet society still doesn’t say...’why did they put themselves in that position’...why is no focus seemingly placed on that aspect...the disrespect they appear to have for females aside...they became ‘vulnerable’, surely in their intentions for that evening ..to leave themselves so open in the whole vein of events...to being accused of rape and non-consensual sexual acts...?...no focus of ‘blame or vulnerability’..ever appears to be there though in how society views these things...?...

[ChristmasNeeve]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I understand the awareness of ‘personal vulnerabilities’ in situations...but sadly in society that’s often placed placed and totally focused on the female..and rape trials especially are extremely difficult for ‘victims’ as we know...which is why many are not reported...or reluctant to report...but as a non guilty verdict was reached in this case...we as a society would assume the ‘victims’ to also be the rugby players...yet society still doesn’t say...’why did they put themselves in that position’...why is no focus seemingly placed on that aspect...the disrespect they appear to have for females aside...they became ‘vulnerable’, surely in their intentions for that evening ..to leave themselves so open in the whole vein of events...to being accused of rape and non-consensual sexual acts...?...no focus of ‘blame or vulnerability’..ever appears to be there though in how society views these things...?...

The thing about it is, that because of the whatsapp messages, those men while sober say they this is what they do, like they seek that kind of activity out, not during the day or when drink isn't involved, waiting to find a girl who they can take advantage of basically

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The thing about it is, that because of the whatsapp messages, those men while sober say they this is what they do, like they seek that kind of activity out, not during the day or when drink isn't involved, waiting to find a girl who they can take advantage of basically

...yeah that’s what I mean I guess..(...sorry my thoughts are a bit fuzzed this morning so that post was probably not well explained..)...but ..(..as it’s assumed not rape with this in the eyes of the law...)...society still often views it with some things I’ve seen as focus on the female’s vulnerability...but it could be said that their behaviour left them vulnerable as well...of ‘consensual’ being assured...their charges and trial were surely because of their own actions in what they ‘sought out’ that evening...and that’s why responsibility of ‘vulnerable’ should not be placed on the female...but it so often is...in fact mostly it is by society judgement...they sound pretty grim tbh, the rugby players...but their actions up to and through it all is what placed the ‘vulnerability’...not her actions...in my thoughts anyway...

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I understand the awareness of ‘personal vulnerabilities’ in situations...but sadly in society that’s often placed placed and totally focused on the female..and rape trials especially are extremely difficult for ‘victims’ as we know...which is why many are not reported...or reluctant to report...but as a non guilty verdict was reached in this case...we as a society would assume the ‘victims’ to also be the rugby players...yet society still doesn’t say...’why did they put themselves in that position’...why is no focus seemingly placed on that aspect...the disrespect they appear to have for females aside...they became ‘vulnerable’, surely in their intentions for that evening ..to leave themselves so open in the whole vein of events...to being accused of rape and non-consensual sexual acts...?...no focus of ‘blame or vulnerability’..ever appears to be there though in how society views these things...?...

Exactly. Even if a woman wins a rape case there's still always talk of what she could have done to better protect herself from being raped. But there's never any talk of what men can do to protect themselves from being accused of being rape, men just aren't given that kind of responsibility. If you're going to have rough group sex with someone you hardly know that results in them being injured/bleeding, and then show no interest in her welfare afterwards and act the way they acted/spoke about her the way they spoke, then you could say that in terms of having a rape accusation thrown at them, they were "asking for it" - but of course that never gets said when it's the other way around. Peoples attitudes are completely imbalanced on the whole. Hopefully 'Ibelieveher' will make other men think about that and start taking more responsibility for their own actions.

Also, I actually think that rape trials should be handled differently and without the need for 'beyond reasonable doubt'. For example having a certain percentage of certainty perhaps, and leniancy in sentencing if someone is convicted with doubt.
I know that would probably never happen (and maybe it's a terrible idea idk) but if the conviction rate and number of people who don't even report is ever going to change then there needs to be some kind of overhaul on how cases are dealt with to reflect that it's practically impossible in most cases to know for certain if consent was given. It's completely different from things such as murder/robbery etc as it's not the act itself (sex) that's being questioned so the cases being handled differently would just be reflective of that too. And it'd mean bringing into question mens behaviours and actions much more than is currently the case, and the accused actually being on trial, rather than just the accuser.