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Shasown · 29-03-2010, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by WOMBAI

Exactly! Because they can't terminate the pregnancy - all the more reason to exercise good judgement at the point of conception! You do have a say - don't claim you don't - that is why you have to protect yourself. Common sense - unless, of course, the little grey cells are absent!

Surely it should be down to both to ensure tommy tadpole doesnt meet ena egg. And if because of stupidity, selfishness, or the fact the cling film ripped, then both of the prospective parents should fess up then sit down and discuss it like reasonable adults, i mean they did okay at playing the adult game that got them in that predicament in the first place.

WOMBAI · 29-03-2010, 09:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Shasown

Surely it should be down to both to ensure tommy tadpole doesnt meet ena egg. And if because of stupidity, selfishness, or the fact the cling film ripped, then both of the prospective parents should fess up then sit down and discuss it like reasonable adults, i mean they did okay at playing the adult game that got them in that predicament in the first place.

I quite agree - both need to use protection! Just as women have been told for decades not to trust men - men shouldn't trust women! Casual sex is an individual choice - as long as both parties have enough sense to protect themselves. Unfortunately - some guys refuse to see that and constantly try to lay all the blame at her door.

hennessy · 29-03-2010, 09:04 PM

Women hold all the cards, most of the time they choose their partner, they can tell the man to wear a johnny (can you imagine a man saying no and carrying on?) and in fact we need to actually have an oral contract with the women, with her actually saying out loud we may have sex.
I'm not saying it's a one way street but the women almost always controls the situation and if she gets pregnant than a fair share of the blame falls on her.
And she should be on the pill too, why have just one safeguard?
And what about the morning after pill? Infact she has 6 months to ponder it and you're judging men for a few seconds?
To come up with a stupid analogy if I was doing a bank job with a friend and I was most likely to get caught than I'd be wearing the ski mask
And you seem to ignore the number of women who lie to men and say they are on the pill.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relat...ptivepills.htm
The pill is as effective as the condom against pregnancy.

Zippy · 29-03-2010, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by hennessy

And you seem to ignore the number of women who lie to men and say they are on the pill.
http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relat...ptivepills.htm
The pill is as effective as the condom against pregnancy.

Yes. I dread to think how many babies have been born out of that particular lie.

Women choose Motherhood. But many men do not choose Fatherhood and get dragged there against their will. Via deception.

WOMBAI · 29-03-2010, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Zippy

Yes. I dread to think how many babies have been born out of that particular lie.

Women choose Motherhood. But many men do not choose Fatherhood and get dragged there against their will. Via deception.

You really don't get it do you! Yes some women do lie about being on the pill - so therefore any intelligent man would know not to trust what women say when having casual sex! Use a rubber - that way you have CHOICE! You are as good as choosing fatherhood - if you don't protect yourself!

Zippy · 29-03-2010, 09:35 PM

Oh Wombai, you're like the Energizer bunny. Without the cuteness.

Ive made my point. Women need to stop getting sperminated by losers. Only then will we get back to having family units that actually give stability and security to kids. Which will help prevent them going off the rails.

Bad boys make bad Fathers. And have bad genes too.

WOMBAI · 29-03-2010, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Zippy

Oh Wombai, you're like the Energizer bunny. Without the cuteness.

Ive made my point. Women need to stop getting sperminated by losers. Only then will we get back to having family units that actually give stability and security to kids. Which will help prevent them going off the rails.

Bad boys make bad Fathers. And have bad genes too.

Iv'e made my point too - men need to take responsibility for their actions and stop irrisponsibly planting their seed all over the place! Only then will we get back to having family units that provide stability and security to kids etc!