[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

could be. Although it is a lovely gesture, I have found that men that opened doors for me later on turned out to be chauvinist, sexist, acting superior, feeling entitled, genuinely believed they were better than everyone, special...the list is quite long.

I did my little part, I acted like a gent, I opened the door now return the favor 100 fold

[GypsyGoth]

I think it's nice.

[Redway]

Always thought of it as a basic act of kindness: gender doesn't cross my mind when I do it.

[Lee.]

What about when it comes to paying? Would you feel offended if a man insisted on paying for everything?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Lee.

What about when it comes to paying? Would you feel offended if a man insisted on paying for everything?

I wouldn't feel offended but I wouldn't let him do it either (well, i would now with Gav cos we're married so it's different) but if I was just on a date with someone

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Lee.

What about when it comes to paying? Would you feel offended if a man insisted on paying for everything?

..not so much offended as I just wouldn't feel comfortable if I was just dating someone ..and I do still like to pay for stuff I buy for my OH with my own money....

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Lee.

What about when it comes to paying? Would you feel offended if a man insisted on paying for everything?

I would be over the ****ing moon. I would allow anyone to pay for anything for me tbh. I'm a right scrooge (and skint )

[Smithy]

no, again, it's just being polite

[Loukas]

I'm a man, i open doors for both sexes and im not a chav. It's just good manners. I can't stand it when someone doesn't say thank you when i do it either

[Jessica.]

What a silly question, I don't think about somebody's gender when I hold a door open for them.

[Lee.]

Originally Posted by Jessica‪

What a silly question, I don't think about somebody's gender when I hold a door open for them.

I worded it wrong.. Read on a bit

[Crimson Dynamo]

er no one thinks that to open a door for a woman is chauvinistic

doing so and then saying "nice arse luv" is however (even if her arse is nice!)

[Crimson Dynamo]

I will always stand when being introduced to a lady (if seated) but this trend seems to be on the decline?

[Jake.]

I'd do it for anyone really, regardless of their gender

[King Gizzard]

I'd do it for a guy too, it's just being nice lol

[Jake.]

I wouldn't for Greg though, he's a dick

[King Gizzard]

Life's too short to be to be treading on egg shells in fear of offending someone

You're always bound to offend someone whatever you do or say

[Jake.]

Originally Posted by Nathan

Life's too short to be to be treading on egg shells in fear of offending someone

You're always bound to offend someone whatever you do or say

Agreed Nathan

I can't stand you, stupid moron

There, I said it

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Nathan

Life's too short to be to be treading on egg shells in fear of offending someone

You're always bound to offend someone whatever you do or say

Originally Posted by Jake.

Agreed Nathan

I can't stand you, stupid moron

There, I said it

[smudgie]

No.

Good manners are good for both sexes.
Most people give you a smile or a nod in appreciation as well.

[King Gizzard]

Shutup Jacob you mug m8

[smeagol]

you got to be careful when being a gent. a family member last week was on a bus and a o woman came on and had to stand so he said to this guy sitting are you going to get up and let this woman sit. and he said f off im not a guy im female lol

[Livia]

Well that poll seems pretty conclusive. I like men being chivalrous, doesn't make me feel like a chattel or belittled in any way. In fact if a man wasn't chivalrous on a date there wouldn't be a second date.

[thesheriff443]

im always helping women out of their clothers

[smeagol]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

im always helping women out of their clothers

LOL