[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Z

Cheers LT. I'm going to go round to my brother's flat tomorrow to collect the invites (there's one for my younger brother as well) and keep them hidden somewhere and respond to mine tomorrow night. Do you think handwritten or typed would be better?

handwritten of course and with a fountain pen if you have one!

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..yes..that would indicate that they don't actually want him to go but are just being polite...

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Z

Well, now that you mention it, I do have four blank post cards from Moscow lying in my room...

[lily.]

You get wee cards for acceptance and if you are not able to go..

Go to a card shop and get one.


Edit: Get two.. you need one for your invite and one for Alex's one..

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by lily.

You get wee cards for acceptance and if you are not able to go..

Go to a card shop and get one.

the brides mother will appreciate the personal touch




and by that I dont mean z fingering her at the reception..

[Cal.]

Originally Posted by Me. I Am Salman

not sure how the weddings you're talking about work. with south asian weddings, it's usually in a huge venue with everyone sitting around circular tables and food being served, whilst people who knows/are related to the bride or groom go to the front to take photos with them and feed them cake (lol). then once everyone has eaten they gather to the front for the vows to be said

these weddings have 100-200 people, if not more. you can literally roll up and get a free three course meal, no one asks who you are as they just assume you know the bride/groom somehow. the venue is so full you end up sitting with strangers anyway. a large percentage of people leave straightaway after they eat and might leave an envelope of money for the newlyweds

so yeah, everytime I go to a wedding I just sit with my extended family/friends and eat and socialise with them. don't even bother going up to see who's getting married.

that's exactly like my wedding to my first sugar daddy jeromeslofishash

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Z

I've been formally invited to a wedding I've never been invited to one before - I went to my cousin's wedding when I was a kid so obviously I wasn't responding to the invitation and then for my older brother's wedding it was a given I would be there so I wasn't given an invitation - so this is the first time I've ever been invited! But eh... how do you actually respond to a wedding invite? What do you say?

You go to a card shop and buy a RSVP wedding card - fill it out and send it back - job done - simples