[Daniel-X]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...I'm not sure about 'sly' Daniel, only because they did put it on snapchat, which is somewhere, where you would see it so in a way, they were quite open about it..?..but just didn't really explain it to you properly, so I can see why it would upset you...plus if you've always been a part of the 'girl's night in', other times and always invited them..then, that would hurt...sadly, people don't always think..'how would I feel'..and I'm sure that hurt wasn't intended, so talk to them about it today...see what they say and explain how it made you feel, because quite often we can misunderstand stuff that really doesn't need to be misunderstood but that can cause bad feelings...

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I hope that you all get it reconciled and you feel happier about it.....

Originally Posted by LiamBB

It's understandable why it upset you because noone likes to feel left out, but I'd wonder if there was any malice behind it. As has been said, they didn't try and hide their girly night in so there probably wasn't any malicious intent in leaving you out, just a lack of consideration perhaps? Just have a chat with them and let them know in a reasonable way without getting angry at them how it made you feel. I'm sure they'll understand. It's best to be honest and not bottle things up I think. And to be fair to them, even if you are included 99% of the time, sometimes girls just want girl company, which isn't anything personal against you.

Tbh I think it's the fact they made out they were staying home and not having this girly night and then went and did it. I just find it confusing because if they wanted me to know they would've told me in the morning when I asked what they were doing but if they didn't they wouldn't have put it on snapchat. It's just really getting me confused. I agree Ammi and Liam I don't think they were purposely trying to be malicious and after reading your posts maybe just being inconsiderate and not taking into account how I would feel. Over these last four/five weeks though I've really felt left out and distant with them. I'll have a talk with them later probably but I don't want to at the minute because I'm still slightly annoyed and I don't want it to turn into something bigger than it has to be if my tempers get flared.

[DemolitionRed]

I completely understand why you would feel miffed. What these two girls have done is disregard your feelings by leaving you out. If I were you, I would probably be feeling a little rejected too.

I will say this though; try not to take it personally. They wanted a night in together and regardless of your closeness or anyone else they are close with, leaving you out is likely not personal. We all have our selfish moments; last night they had theirs.

I wouldn't make an issue of this but I would perhaps ask them why they weren't more liberal with the truth. Just smile and tell them you're cool with them wanting to spend alone time together but you're not cool with their cover-up of the truth.

[Kizzy]

Friends that exclude you from nights in or out are crap friends, get some better ones.