[Gstar]

Usually but everyone is different, I believe there are things we cannot forgive and everyone should respect whatever decision the individual makes

[Tozzie]

I have forgiven most wrongdoings in my lifetime but one of my sisters did something unforgivable for her own selfish reasons and not giving a second thought to how her actions were hurting members of my family. We haven't spoken in 3 years and I doubt we will ever because she isn't even sorry for what she did which I don't want to disclose. All I can say is me and my dead sisters children were devastated. I don't wish any harm on her and I hope she has a nice life but I choose for her not to be in mine. I don't feel guilty for cutting her out of my life because she has done a lot of hurtful things to me since I was little and I'm not prepared to be hurt by her anymore.

[Kazanne]

Unforgiving with certain people , but forgiving for something trivial, I don't hate easily,but when I do it's with a passion.

[Nicky91]

i never really hold grudges on anyone

[Morgan.]

I need to know that hey have genuine intentions and aren't gonna spout the same **** again if I'm to forgive.

[Niamh.]

Totally depends on what it was and who it involved

[Crimson Dynamo]

I had a South African pal who had a big grudge


mind you, he had a big car

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

You see I was having this debate earlier with one of my friends who basically believes that people shouldn't hold grudges over issues from ages ago, and I personally believe that if someone does something really disgraceful against you that you have every right to hold a grudge against the person for how long it takes for you to not be angry anymore.

Basically do you hold grudges or can you forgive even the most disgraceful mistreatment?

Poll will be coming shortly.

I could not agree more.

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by kirklancaster

I could not agree more.

when you hold onto hate - it destroys you. why do you think I love you kirky baby

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by waterhog

when you hold onto hate - it destroys you. why do you think I love you kirky baby

Kirk stood on his garden deck when all his foes were dead
"I'm Glad" he mused, "That I held onto hate
And hadn't forgiven instead"

I love you too Hog.

[ethanjames]

genuinely depends. i don't think i haven't not forgiven anybody so far i think everyone deserves a second chance

[-Sue-]

It really does depend what happened.. I would love to say I 'never forget' but as a woman we seldom do

I can be nice when I need to be and I can break out a sting in my tail when they push me too far

PS eg I could never forgive someone for 'cheating' but can forgive for petty arguments (long as I don't catch them sla*ging me off behind my back.. it's like come on have the ballz to say it to my face) lol

[-Sue-]

I guess I can forgive but I can NEVER forget...