[GoldHeart]

It's just I genuinely thought .. maybe something bad happened, so I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt . As he was going through stuff & he was also busy .

But now I think he's playing games,if he can still go online & check his emails / possibly talking to other girls ... Whilst blanking me.

I just don't understand ,he himself expressed his frustration with dating & how he'd been rejected for his height .And also how he'd been ghosted and messed around by women in the past . And now here he is ghosting me .

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

It's just I genuinely thought .. maybe something bad happened, so I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt . As he was going through stuff & he was also busy .

But now I think he's playing games,if he can still go online & check his emails / possibly talking to other girls ... Whilst blanking me.

I just don't understand ,he himself expressed his frustration with dating & how he'd been rejected for his height .And also how he'd been ghosted and messed around by women in the past . And now here he is ghosting me .

Ironic isn’t it

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Ironic isn’t it

That reminds me of something I saw posted on FB the other day, some guy giving out about how women are so shallow because he's short and fat and can't get a date but his good looking friends got all these hot girls even though the guys are aseholes, so this woman commented on his post asking him how many short, fat girls he'd asked out? He was really confused by the question.....

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

That reminds me of something I saw posted on FB the other day, some guy giving out about how women are so shallow because he's short and fat and can't get a date but his good looking friends got all these hot girls even though the guys are aseholes, so this woman commented on his post asking him how many short, fat girls he'd asked out? He was really confused by the question.....

Love it .

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

That reminds me of something I saw posted on FB the other day, some guy giving out about how women are so shallow because he's short and fat and can't get a date but his good looking friends got all these hot girls even though the guys are aseholes, so this woman commented on his post asking him how many short, fat girls he'd asked out? He was really confused by the question.....

Some people are very blind when it comes to their own failings.

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Gold heart he is taking you for a fool

Stop giving dicks like this the time of day , you are already making excuses for him and you barely know him.

You deserve better

This. He's a waste of your time love.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Kate!

This. He's a waste of your time love.

Yeah I'm realising that now, the funny thing is he was the one who pursued me in the first place, and suggested meeting up etc.

We've been talking about 6 weeks or so consistently ,and only met once. And he hasn't spoken for the past 4 days now.

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Yeah I'm realising that now, the funny thing is he was the one who pursued me in the first place, and suggested meeting up etc.

We've been talking about 6 weeks or so consistently ,and only met once. And he hasn't spoken for the past 4 days now.

GoldHeart he's an A hole and if he reappears ~ tell him to kiss yours. He's a twat and its his loss.

[Beso]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

GoldHeart he's an A hole and if he reappears ~ tell him to kiss yours. He's a twat and its his loss.

This.

[Swan]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

The bottom line is, if he is interested, he will contact you, I wouldn't chase him

This 100%

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Yeah I'm realising that now, the funny thing is he was the one who pursued me in the first place, and suggested meeting up etc.

We've been talking about 6 weeks or so consistently ,and only met once. And he hasn't spoken for the past 4 days now.

His loss. We have this weird thing as humans where we want someone who rejects us, and if/when we get them it's very meh.

Stay strong, you're a lovely person GH!

[hijaxers]

Originally Posted by Swan

This 100%



His loss. We have this weird thing as humans where we want someone who rejects us, and if/when we get them it's very meh.

Stay strong, you're a lovely person GH!

Totally agree with you Swan a very lovely person.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by hijaxers

GoldHeart he's an A hole and if he reappears ~ tell him to kiss yours. He's a twat and its his loss.

Lol Thanks, I'm wondering if I'll ever get a message again. And tbh I don't feel like replying if he does contact me again.

Originally Posted by Swan

This 100%



His loss. We have this weird thing as humans where we want someone who rejects us, and if/when we get them it's very meh.

Stay strong, you're a lovely person GH!

That's sweet thanks

Originally Posted by hijaxers

Totally agree with you Swan a very lovely person.

Thanks guys , I guess a part of me wants closure. But this isn't the first time I've been ghosted. I guess I should be use to it , people are weird.

[Beso]

5...Is Warwick Davis making any films atm?

[Swan]

I need to catch up on this, just got back from watching the football.

[Swan]

Yeah you're gonna get hurt if you don't stop. But the more he rejects you, the more you're gonna want closure and reasons why.

STOP!

The path only leads to unhappiness and frustration!

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Swan

Yeah you're gonna get hurt if you don't stop. But the more he rejects you, the more you're gonna want closure and reasons why.

STOP!

The path only leads to unhappiness and frustration!

Yeah I know this now

[Swan]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

Yeah I know this now

We are all human, i went through it recently, it hurts. Allow it to hurt, then do you best to move on!!

[thesheriff443]

Kate and parmy having a domestic

[thesheriff443]

I would encourage people to talk about situations like this.

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

I would encourage people to talk about situations like this.

There's only so many ways I can describe a Tumbleweed on my love life.

[GoldHeart]

OMG !!!

I don't even know where to begin , he's sent me a message . 8 days later he's now Contacted me , I CANNOT even WOW ....

[The Slim Reaper]

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

On a different note Dirty Dancing is one of my favourite movies .

But seriously .....this bloke is something else, I was right he's been discussing me with his mother & apparently they argued about me . And how he's been "having a think " .

[Swan]

Originally Posted by The Slim Reaper

Nobody leaves GoldHeart on read.

Seems like he's been keeping you in the back pocket in case other things didn't work out. Leave him well alone and ignore his messages.

BRILLIANT!!

But yeah, sound advice!

The more you ignore, the more frustrated he'll get. What goes around comes around, stay strong Goldy!

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

OMG !!!

I don't even know where to begin , he's sent me a message . 8 days later he's now Contacted me , I CANNOT even WOW ....

8 Days Later sounds like a Zombie flick.

Did he tell you what was going on? You don't have to tell me the exact details, but he should let you know what's going on.