[Niall]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

please dont make a big deal about it, seriously i can barley even say it out loud. I dont care about people on here knowing because its hardly the real me

I used to be like that Caitlin. Once you admit to yourself that you're gay/lesbian/bi/whatever then you get used to it and it gets easier to talk about irl.

[Stu]

*dejectedly pulls down Happy Lesbianism! banners and cancels plans for party threads and promotional DVD's*

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Niall

I used to be like that Caitlin. Once you admit to yourself that you're gay/lesbian/bi/whatever then you get used to it and it gets easier to talk about irl.

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

Originally Posted by Stu

*dejectedly pulls down Happy Lesbianism! banners and cancels plans for party threads and promotional DVD's*

LOL

[Niall]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

Lmao well you're gonna have to come out to your parents sooner or later but I can see why you think that. The majority of parents are ok if their child is gay - mine were.

[Smithy]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

thanks, I can talk to my friends about it, but Im scared it goes round school and gets back home some how. Im also scared people gunna be like ewww when they see me. and what people think about me.

If people change their opinion on you because of it, it says a lot more about them then it does about you

[Shaun]

bi, bi, mr. torquay guy.

[Jords]

Caitlin

[Maia]

Asexual and proud.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Mollie.

Asexual and proud.

Have you never fancied anybody?

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Mollie.

Asexual and proud.

Really? How do you know? Never come across anyone who is asexual

[cub]

Ninastar, I wouldn't worry too much about labelling yourself anything other than 'You'.

At this stage don't worry about coming out and how to come out until you feel completely ready for it. Take your time - it's your time.

I waited until my parents more or less 'knew' I was gay before I mentioned it. I only sat them down because they were worrying about me as they didn't know another gay person and I had to explain that I was sensible, could look after myself and that there wasn't a problem.