[Livia]

Originally Posted by BBUKAUSFAN

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Step away from your computers and you idealistic ideas and opinions on people which are always not true.

Arron and conor are just messing around, and you people look far to deep into situations. Seriously Get a ****ing life.

You understand the concept of this being a BB forum, right?

[coolface]

Originally Posted by Lister of Smeg

i say this as a man there attitude towards the girls is disgusting they make them sit on the floor then throw lots of vile abuse at them. Arron clearly idolizes Conor and copies everything he does so to me he's just a brain dead sheep but Conor is a real nasty piece of work theres no excuse for the things he says and does he's just a nasty bully that gets a kick out of picking on women i can only hope no woman goes near him when he gets out .

whilst I agree with the rest of your post, why is this a big deal, should the girls automatically get to sit in the chair because they're girls and the boys have to sit on the floor because they're boys? it's like women who expect you to give up your seat on the bus for them because you're a man, doesn't sound like equality to me

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by coolface

whilst I agree with the rest of your post, why is this a big deal, should the girls automatically get to sit in the chair because they're girls and the boys have to sit on the floor because they're boys? it's like women who expect you to give up your seat on the bus for them because you're a man, doesn't sound like equality to me

I agree, it seems it is only wrong and something to get at if men don't give up ther seats,

I am all for equality but mutual respect needs to be there too, these people the 2 guys and the 2 gilrs detest each other.
I pointed out somewhere on here, that I offered my seat to a woman standing on a bus I was on and got,''I am capable of standing''. really polite that was I am sure.

I have seen people get on the bus who are really elderly and women still sitting never moving from the seat to offer it up.

The odd things is also, no one critices the maltesers advert where 2 guys are sleeping on the sofa and the 2 women are sitting on the floor,
that advert is not a world away from preference really, a lot of my female friends rarely sit on the chairs or settee,they prefer to be on the floor.
I generally sprawl out on the floor to watch TV too.It's not that bad a place to be.

My own Mum for instance,loves sitting on the floor, with the dog beside her,it has never been thought or even considered that Becky and Deana likely maybe didn't want to sit close to Arron and Conor and chose to sit there anyway.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I agree, it seems it is only wrong and something to get at if men don't give up ther seats,

I am all for equality but mutual respect needs to be there too, these people the 2 guys and the 2 gilrs detest each other.
I pointed out somewhere on here, that I offered my seat to a woman standing on a bus I was on and got,''I am capable of standing''. really polite that was I am sure.

I have seen people get on the bus who are really elderly and women still sitting never moving from the seat to offer it up.

The odd things is also, no one critices the maltesers advert where 2 guys are sleeping on the sofa and the 2 women are sitting on the floor,
that advert is not a world away from preference really, a lot of my female friends rarely sit on the chairs or settee,they prefer to be on the floor.
I generally sprawl out on the floor to watch TV too.It's not that bad a place to be.

My own Mum for instance,loves sitting on the floor, with the dog beside her,it has never been thought or even considered that Becky and Deana likely maybe didn't want to sit close to Arron and Conor and chose to sit there anyway.

Detest each other...why's that then?
As deana said she has never had a convo with conor, so why has he built up this massive dislike for her from?
Arron does change and is polite and chatty to both women when conor isn't around.
He is the instigator of most of the aggression and animosity in the house imo.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Detest each other...why's that then?
As deana said she has never had a convo with conor, so why has he built up this massive dislike for her from?
Arron does change and is polite and chatty to both women when conor isn't around.
He is the instigator of most of the aggression and animosity in the house imo.

As Deana said that you point out rightly, she has never had a conversation with Conor, yet when asked by the public who she would evict on friday she answered Conor,???

So she is making her judgements of Conor on what she has seen him do and heard rather than learned for herself, just the same as he has done as to her too, hence the reason they likely detest each other.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

As Deana said that you point out rightly, she has never had a conversation with Conor, yet when asked by the public who she would evict on friday she answered Conor,???

So she is making her judgements of Conor on what she has seen him do and heard rather than learned for herself, just the same as he has done as to her too, hence the reason they likely detest each other.

Of course she would say conor, if I were a HM and someone suggested they would punch me and shove a brush up my lady garden I would probably want them out too....

[Adamw92]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

As Deana said that you point out rightly, she has never had a conversation with Conor, yet when asked by the public who she would evict on friday she answered Conor,???

So she is making her judgements of Conor on what she has seen him do and heard rather than learned for herself, just the same as he has done as to her too, hence the reason they likely detest each other.

AFTER he said she was fake. I would say him too if he'd behaved to me the way he has with her, he's been constantly on her case yet he's never actually had a proper conversation with her.

[Roy Mars III]

lol

[Yayita]

Domestic violence isnt only physical, don't miss the main point. Emotional and mental abuse can be worst than a punch in the face.

[robb]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Domestic violence isnt only physical, don't miss the main point. Emotional and mental abuse can be worst than a punch in the face.

Forget the sitting on the floor bit. It was the imbecilic behaviour of the two little boys that will mean one of them (pity it isn't both) will get the bullet tonight, me hopes.

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by robb

Forget the sitting on the floor bit. It was the imbecilic behaviour of the two little boys that will mean one of them (pity it isn't both) will get the bullet tonight, me hopes.

Completely agree, it was despicable!

[smeagol]

their families must be so proud lol. everybody wants bullies as sons. must be very uncomfortable viewing for them sometimes. or i hope it is or they are tossers too.

if you dont like a woman there's no need to ridicule belittle bully them and treat them like scum just to make youself seem big which is what arron and connor do regualy. they arn't men they are low lifes who need to try it on a guy and see what happens. but they wont as bullies are cowards and men fight back.
embrassment to everybody they are. even the fans they had. especially arron

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by smeagol

their families must be so proud lol. everybody wants bullies as sons. must be very uncomfortable viewing for them sometimes. or i hope it is or they are tossers too.

if you dont like a woman there's no need to ridicule belittle bully them and treat them like scum just to make youself seem big which is what arron and connor do regualy. they arn't men they are low lifes who need to try it on a guy and see what happens. but they wont as bullies are cowards and men fight back.
embrassment to everybody they are. even the fans they had. especially arron

Well said!

[smudgie]

As a parent I would find their behaviour very embarassing, uncouth, foul mouthed and badly behaved in general. Also very immature for their age.

On the same noie I would feel the same way about a couple of the girls in there as well.

[Marcus.]

i would not let the to wemen sit on the floor i would let them sit on the chair and i sit on the floor

[Mystic Mock]

I agree OP, and all I keep hearing about off people is that if this is the new generation of men then im worried about the future, sadly not all of us are like that but it's just vocal twats like Conor that gives young guys a bad name.

[Marcus.]

Originally Posted by The Mockinator

I agree OP, and all I keep hearing about off people is that if this is the new generation of men then im worried about the future, sadly not all of us are like that but it's just vocal twats like Conor that gives young guys a bad name.

i would not act like them the are really bad i would let the ladies go though first then let them sit down on the chair then i would of sit down

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by bigbrother12

i would not act like them the are really bad i would let the ladies go though first then let them sit down on the chair then i would of sit down

I've got to be honest but only if I liked the person would I give up a seat for them.

But I wouldn't make a womans life a living hell, or anyones for that matter.

[AnnieK]

I wouldn't expect any man to give up their seat for me (although the offer would be nice) so I don't think that is a problem and IMO its pretty sexist for people to say that guys should give up their seat for a woman (we are equals after all) - they are all able bodied and young so as far as I am concerned it would be first come first served on the chair - it would be different if someone was injured / heavily pregnant etc etc but not in these circumstances

[fruit_cake]

I don't think they should have to give up automatically their seat because they are men, it's not like Deana and Becky are old and decrepit or anything.

[Mystic Mock]

That must have been horrible *Kate*.

I have got to say why would he enter a relationship with you if he just wanted to abuse you though? although I don't think I can ever understand the logic of psychopaths but there you go.

[AnnieK]

*Kate* , I am quite new on here and thankfully never had to suffer what you have been through and TBH I am one of the people who feel that the Conor/Arron/Deana thing has been blown out of all proportion on here and that Conor whilst not particularly nice was just showing off BUT now having read your post I can now see from your point of view why the things they have been doing would flag to you as early warnings as you have lived through hell....

It must be tough reliving it on here but raising awareness about things like this always helps people understand more so I applaud you for that sincerely
x

[Marcus.]

i would let my becky to sit on the chair and me sit on thefloor or she can sit on my lap

[kistar]

Can I just say as some one who has experienced domestic violence at first hand too ,I don't think we should brand Conor as anything other than a guy on a game show, if you start seeing traits in people on TV that remind you of a person that hurt you emotionally or physically it doesn't mean that person is the same, the perception is yours and if you are focused on seeing those traits before they manifest themselves into the physical , you will perhaps see them where they are not.

[Kizzy]

What a lovely thing to say, two amazing women. And two of the nicest people on this forum