[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by mkbb

Love is convenient lust. Deana is a pessimist she see's this. How many people say they are in love but then break up with the person a few months later. If you love someone you will do anything for them nothing would end the relationship. Most people say they are in love because having someone interested in them makes that person feel less pathetic.

if you premedidate and prejudge the person and as so often is the case now, the man , you will never find chemistry, understanding, a friendship, let alone love....women across the country have been prejudging men now for decades and getting it hopelessly wrong. they listen far too uch to the hatred of radical feminists who are only out to create more division in order to sell their books

[smeagol]

money cant buy you love but it sure can rent it for a while lol

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by karezza

Isn't Princess Deana lovely?

yeah yet more male hate ignored by the producers and presenters, the show is digustingly misandrist in its hatred of men, she also said last night no man will ever control me, nobody wants to love? all Ive ever seen in my life is either ahealthy balanced relationship or one where the woman controls the man, i have NEVER witnessed any relationship where the man tries to control the woman, and no its not just this era, my grandparents , my great grandparents, my uncles and aunties and great uncles and aunties, everyone of that had women controlling most matters, its a total myth men control women in the uk

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

yeah yet more male hate ignored by the producers and presenters, the show is digustingly misandrist in its hatred of men, she also said last night no man will ever control me, nobody wants to love? all Ive ever seen in my life is either ahealthy balanced relationship or one where the woman controls the man, i have NEVER witnessed any relationship where the man tries to control the woman, and no its not just this era, my grandparents , my great grandparents, my uncles and aunties and great uncles and aunties, everyone of that had women controlling most matters, its a total myth men control women in the uk

Don't be ridiculous, there are controlling men and there are controlling women, it's not a gender thing, it's a personality thing, we are all individuals. You come on here complaining about sexism towards men and then spout off this sexist drivel towards women in the same breath which completely invalidates your points .

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Don't be ridiculous, there are controlling men and there are controlling women, it's not a gender thing, it's a personality thing, we are all individuals. You come on here complaining about sexism towards men and then spout off this sexist drivel towards women in the same breath which completely invalidates your points .

wrong. I am NOT GENERALIZING, I AM GIVING YOU SPECIFIC EXAMPLES OF PEOPLE I HAVE KNOWN FOR MUCH OF MY LIFE, YOU ARE GENERALIZING THAT MOST PEOPLE ARE THIS OR THAT AS IS DEANA AND SOME WOMEN POSTERS HERE WHO SAYS ALL MEN TALK WORSE ABOUT WOMEN THAN THE OTHER WAY AROUND....i am not generalizing here , you are

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

wrong. I am NOT GENERALIZING, I AM GIVING YOU SPECIFIC EXAMPLES OF PEOPLE I HAVE KNOWN FOR MUCH OF MY LIFE, YOU ARE GENERALIZING THAT MOST PEOPLE ARE THIS OR THAT AS IS DEANA AND SOME WOMEN POSTERS HERE WHO SAYS ALL MEN TALK WORSE ABOUT WOMEN THAN THE OTHER WAY AROUND....i am not generalizing here , you are

Please stop posting in caps like that.

When have I generalised based on sex, please tell me?

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Please stop posting in caps like that.

When have I generalised based on sex, please tell me?

talking about capital letters, a pathetic diversory tactic when you cant be bothered to follow the argument...youll be picking up on peoples bad spelling next.... you tried to imply my opinion based on actual individuals i have known most of my life was a generalization? that makes zero sense and is in fact a generalization itself

[Petershaw1984]

In her opinion guys in her opinion

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by pio5ukuk

In her opinion guys in her opinion

its a bigoted opinion, if said about women, or gays or black people, it would have made a storm and been called sexist, racist to label all groups of those people the same?

[rinkydinkpanther]

so too combine the words of deana with lauren, all men are cheats and all young men are liars, they wont tell me what to do, then we go to shiv and ash pointing and laughing at adam exercise because hes overweight.....then imagine a man had said these things?

[Yayita]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

so too combine the words of deana with lauren, all men are cheats and all young men are liars, they wont tell me what to do, then we go to shiv and ash pointing and laughing at adam exercise because hes overweight.....then imagine a man had said these things?

Men say worst things when they are with their blokes

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by Yayita

Men say worst things when they are with their blokes

yet another generalized bigotted drivel....ash mocked lukes willy in front of eveyone not to mention national tv...the men I know NEVER discuss sex with their partner, whereas the women i know the majority do discuss and mock these intimate moments...so you lie.

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

yet another generalized bigotted drivel....ash mocked lukes willy in front of eveyone not to mention national tv...the men I know NEVER discuss sex with their partner, whereas the women i know the majority do discuss and mock these intimate moments...so you lie.

do you even know anyone at all, I have to wonder.

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by fruit_cake

do you even know anyone at all, I have to wonder.

aye I know loads of people, thanks for caring

[Shaun]

this couldn't possibly be an exaggerated claim for a reality TV videotape based on personal bad experiences, it must be a calculated judgment of an entire gender

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Shaun

this couldn't possibly be an exaggerated claim for a reality TV videotape based on personal bad experiences, it must be a calculated judgment of an entire gender

Exxxxxxxxxactly, most of their VTs are cringeworthy and over exaggerated, remember Aarons from last year?

[WozMan]

Lets just say RinkyDink has been badly hurt by women and Deana has been badly hurt by men.

Everyone generalises. It's actually a necessary part of living. Otherwise we would have to be constantly relearning everything.

On a point of BB being man-hating. Adam came out of the argument with Shiv looking WAY better than her. Also Conor had to threaten rape and battery on Deana to get a warning. Caroline had to compare Adam to an animal to get one. Personally I'd rather be called a slug etc than have someone twice my size threaten to rape me and beat me into unconsciousness.

[coolface]

rebeckah last year was worse than deana

[realitytvsux]

From what I've seen of Deana in the house she seems to have a realistic and pragmatic approach to life. It is not surprising she takes the same approach to love. It is as bit sad that she has come to such a conclusion as quite a young age but I am sure it is based on her own experience or things she has seen. She seems like quite an open person so she might change her mind later on. In any case I think we expect too much from romantic love and end up setting ourselves up for failure when our unrealistic expectations are not met. Hence the UK has one of the highest divorce rates of all,

[rinkydinkpanther]

I would also add in british society female control is considered funny and treated with far far more triviality than male control...the police alone would ignore a man ringing them to complain of a controlling wife, the other way around and he may well be going to jail. there is a cultural bias against men in the uk and a bias in law courts too. this is clearly seen as men lose over 80% of divorce cases, over 80% custody cases and their homes are also lost in over 70% of divorces. if as you say men and women are just individuals and just as good and bad as each other, then the split should be 50/50% approx wins and losses in divorces, custody and keeping the homes, how do you explain this landslide in womens favor and why is it virtually ignored. perhaps while youre at it you can explain why men commit suicide at nearly 4 times the rate too? no you wont address these issues, you will ignore them with diversory tactics. desperate to either disprove me or mock and ignore these major issues. will your male ego allow you to even acknowledge these are serious problems?

[rinkydinkpanther]

oh how tedious and pedantic, ignore the major issue and pick up 1 missing adjective, ok its a total myth most men control women in the uk

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

oh how tedious and pedantic, ignore the major issue and pick up 1 missing adjective, ok its a total myth most men control women in the uk

What are you talking about, your post to me was 2 sentences long and my post addressed everything you said in it

[rinkydinkpanther]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

What are you talking about, your post to me was 2 sentences long and my post addressed everything you said in it

I think I am wasting my talent even speaking to you, Ive written page after page and youve ignored most of it and just picked out the tiny bits that suit whatever your narrow agenda is..we wont be speaking again

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

I think I am wasting my talent even speaking to you, Ive written page after page and youve ignored most of it and just picked out the tiny bits that suit whatever your narrow agenda is..we wont be speaking again

lmao I answered every post from you directed at me......... But that's ok, if you can't take the heat and all that

[fruit_cake]

Originally Posted by rinkydinkpanther

I think I am wasting my talent even speaking to you, Ive written page after page and youve ignored most of it and just picked out the tiny bits that suit whatever your narrow agenda is..we wont be speaking again

It seems that you've written page after page on the same issue. We got the message three weeks ago in fairness. It's like listening to a broken record that just keeps screeching round and round again.