[Xtopher]

Yes. Plus I'm a very judgemental person.

[Kizzy]

No not at all.

[joeysteele]

No, not in the sense of judging people as to appearance,the way they talk or as to their backgrounds to, just to name 3 instances.

[Mystic Mock]

Well I'm very judgemental myself so I voted for yes.

It's better to have standards than just being friends or liking anything.

[Natalie.]

Nope

[Ammi]

...also a nope from me..most people, if not all have an element of being judgemental about them..judging is a part of our characters, our life experiences, things we associate etc...but it's a balance thing and being 'open' to changing our mind etc if we've judged harshly ..but there are extreme judgemental people who never do that and I'm guessing that's what you mean...?...but no, not a good quality I don't think ..and interestingly in my experience, the 'most judgemental' are ones who themselves don't like to be judged....

[Ammi]

..so, maybe more or less what Caitlin just said..she sneaked her post in there while I was still typing..Caitlin I'm judging you for that....

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...also a nope from me..most people, if not all have an element of being judgemental about them..judging is a part of our characters, our life experiences, things we associate etc...but it's a balance thing and being 'open' to changing our mind etc if we've judged harshly ..but there are extreme judgemental people who never do that and I'm guessing that's what you mean...?...but no, not a good quality I don't think ..and interestingly in my experience, the 'most judgemental' are ones who themselves don't like to be judged....

i also find that it's the 'love everyone no matter what!!!!!!' people who are the most judgemental...

Originally Posted by Ammi

..so, maybe more or less what Caitlin just said..she sneaked her post in there while I was still typing..Caitlin I'm judging you for that....

**** off Ammi, I judged you WAYYY before you judged me!!!!

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

i also find that it's the 'love everyone no matter what!!!!!!' people who are the most judgemental...



**** off Ammi, I judged you WAYYY before you judged me!!!!

..but they don't love everyone if they're judgemental..but I think that generally 'judgements' are made on out own life experiences and maybe personality traits and stuff like that, that we may have been hurt by or had negative experiences with..?...I think with the 'appearance' thing though, rather than personality..maybe that's just a 'humour' I don't know or just another way of 'negative expression'...I have no idea on any psychologies if there are any/sometimes I suspect it could be 'deflection'....


..anyway, you cat loving/baby-sitting/GypsyGoth wannabee, get of a my cloud....I've just about had enough of your nonsense this morning...

[Ninastar]

i also think everyone is judgemental. i don't believe this 'no one should judge anyone ever!!!!!11' crap because EVERYONE does it at one point in their life.

sometimes it's not even a bad thing.

for example, you need a babysitter. Do you go with the first aid trained, CRB checked teenage girl? Or the homeless old man who lives on your street?

pretty sure i know my answer. and i don't think that's a bad thing.

[Pete.]

at this thread

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Petemitch

at this thread

..why the rolled eyes, Pete..?..

[Crimson Dynamo]

Let me tell you that passive-aggressive people are far far worse......

[Crimson Dynamo]

Hence why people like Nigel Farage and hate Ed Milliband

[Crimson Dynamo]

no I dont

that is still the best reply

[Kyle]

I hate judgemental people.....







....so I'm gonna make a thread where we can all judge them

[LukeB]

are you saying i said that? even though i made the thread we are talking about 2 days ago?

[Kyle]

Are you accusing me of making that up?

Whooah what a horrible accusation and judgement. Mods have you seen this?