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delta · 03-08-2016, 09:58 PM

I think Heavy D is a bit simple, (remedial)

Ammi · 04-08-2016, 07:22 AM

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

Drew. · 04-08-2016, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

great post

Natalie. · 04-08-2016, 04:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

Great post Ammi

jet · 04-08-2016, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

I agree. My thoughts too.

Maru · 04-08-2016, 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

Agree with this pretty much completely. I think he has very serious insecurities

Bear and Lewis are actually 100x worse than him and genuinely malicious. He sees this and puts on a big front. Heavy D doesn't really seem to believe most of what comes out of his mouth, though what he says that he thinks is not a big deal shows a lot of insensitivity and poor judgement.... Makes me wonder what he thinks of the public who watches the show who will be voting.

Lstan · 04-08-2016, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Ammi

..I don't know, as grim as he is and has behaved...I somehow feel that he's still not 'malicious' or a mean person...he seems quite anxious to me, almost 'hyper'...and I wonder how much is said and done with just no thought at all and also with his size etc...?...if he's experienced bullying and targeting himself so if he is surrounded by or there is a 'squad' type gang around, he'll immediately and instinctively become one of them to deflect any targeting of himself ..so become an awful/grim person himself...I don't know, I just can't quite dislike him as such because I feel there are some huge emotional issues there...(and maybe always laughed at and dismissed by the 'pretty/popular girls' as well, hence his reactions to Chloe if he's felt 'rejected' on National TV..)...

Even if this is true, its not an excuse for how hes spoken to chloe (i am not saying you are saying that i am just clarifying) also he needs to learn how to take rejection because personally i would find it scary being on the receiving end of his anger

its a real shame because i was rooting for him on launch night (yes even in the face of BOOM) because like i said in another thread he seems like a laugh, but after all thats happened it just seems, like most people, he has a nasty side.

BigBrotherfan4ever · 04-08-2016, 07:25 AM

Can't stand Heavy out of Lewis, Bear & Heavy, Heavy winds me up twice as much Lewis or Bear do .....tbh

chuff me dizzy · 04-08-2016, 07:27 AM

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Can't stand Heavy out of Lewis, Bear & Heavy, Heavy winds me up twice as much Lewis or Bear do .....tbh

Same here, I dont mind Bear and Lewis,but Heavy

how dare he tell someone to wash his underpants ?

LukeB · 04-08-2016, 03:31 PM

I really hate him, him and bear are so awful to watch and making me hate this season. Heavy D calling a female 'that' and he comes across as obsessive over Chloe. Renee telling him he needs to get over it was the only good thing she has done.

Vanessa · 04-08-2016, 03:52 PM

He thinks Chloe is his girlfriend and Bear betrayed him

caprimint · 04-08-2016, 03:58 PM

He's awful. He turned into everything I imagined he'd be. He takes 'jokes' too far but can't handle it when it's flipped around and they're at his expense. I imagine him being aggressive too in arguments, he looked like he wanted to hit Bear re: the bed situation (even though he had no evidence Bear did anything - which he did not).

Vanessa · 04-08-2016, 04:01 PM

Bear was right when he told him : you can give it, but you can't take it!

LukeB · 04-08-2016, 04:02 PM

Chloe needs a restraining order after CBB

Liam- · 04-08-2016, 04:04 PM

I find him to be like a little boy lost, trying to fit in with the 'cool kids' of the playground, I don't think he's malicious, nor do I think he means to come across as aggressive and even though him asking Chloe to scrub his undercrackers was distasteful, I can't help but like him, I think if he could tear himself away from the bullies and be his own person then he'll come into his own and be amazing.

Vanessa · 04-08-2016, 04:05 PM

His attitude to women is disgusting. No wonder he's single

Maru · 04-08-2016, 07:19 PM

He's hilarious. For all the wrong reasons. I will copy my response from another thread

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To add to the wall of negativity here, I have to add that I have a difficult time taking his antics so seriously. He is just so put on.

Underneath that exterior lives a miserable man-child desperately craving attention and acceptance among the "cool" crowd. His behavior to me is the definition of overcompensation. He laughs because he thinks he's smart enough to get away with it. He is not.

Everything he does seems to follow a script, it's like he's planning out his response(s) to get a desired reaction. He doesn't actually pay that much attention to what is said or in the very least, doesn't think very heavily (pun intended) about what his answers should be. I get the impression he is actually fairly naive and insecure around other people and the tough guy/crude-ness act is just a cover.