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the truth · 19-09-2012, 09:39 PM

i know all about confessions. i came on here and admitted ive got a fetish for german shot putters

Gillian-73 · 20-09-2012, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Redway

I know gay people can adopt and all that but it's not the same as actually having children the normal way and I wouldn't classify adopted children to be grandchildren.

Nothing to do with Gay or not now for a minute. I was adopted when i was just six months old, my parents (i have never called them my adopted parents because they are my parents in all the important ways. DNA does not make a parent) My older brother was also adopted and has recently had a baby, my mum and dad are his grandparents and have got every right to call themselves that! We also have a younger brother who is their own and they love us all as much. Always treated us the same way.

Gillian-73 · 20-09-2012, 11:42 AM

Back to the topic lol i wouldn't care in the slightest but i would worry they may face a lot of crap because of it from other people. Unfortunately to many people still seem to have a problem with being gay.

InOne · 20-09-2012, 11:45 AM

I wouldn't care as long as they didn't have a personality transplant as soon as they came out.

Niamh. · 20-09-2012, 12:21 PM

I suppose I would worry that they might have a harder time in life because of it but other than that I love my kids and they are who they are, so as long they're happy, I'm happy

Niamh. · 20-09-2012, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Gillian-73

Nothing to do with Gay or not now for a minute. I was adopted when i was just six months old, my parents (i have never called them my adopted parents because they are my parents in all the important ways. DNA does not make a parent) My older brother was also adopted and has recently had a baby, my mum and dad are his grandparents and have got every right to call themselves that! We also have a younger brother who is their own and they love us all as much. Always treated us the same way.

Very true. It's easy to conceive a child, the parenting doesn't happen till you raise that child.

Benjamin · 20-09-2012, 01:01 PM

I've never had much stick for being gay, I know some gay guys have had tough times, but not all. It's just (un)luck of the draw, like any person who gets bullied.

Obviously I wouldn't care if my child was gay, but I wouldn't encourage them to be an OTT flouncy gay just because that is how so many expect them to be.

Legend killer · 20-09-2012, 01:05 PM

Depend what type of gay he is. Is he the OTT Louis bloody spence gay who puts a lisp on or is he just your normal every day guy who likes to have his angus peppered. If option B i could learn to live with it over time

Vicky. · 20-09-2012, 01:14 PM

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Originally Posted by InOne

I wouldn't care as long as they didn't have a personality transplant as soon as they came out.

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Originally Posted by ukturtle

Obviously I wouldn't care if my child was gay, but I wouldn't encourage them to be an OTT flouncy gay just because that is how so many expect them to be.

Definitely agree with these.

I actually dont understand how so many seem to change after coming out. My best mate was one of those...he was never really 'manly' as such, but once he came out he was a totally different person, screeching, flouncing around, calling everyone honey/babe...basically the stereotypical gay person that everyone expects. I have got used to it now, but it was a big shock to see how much he changed.

Black Dagger · 20-09-2012, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Definitely agree with these.

I actually dont understand how so many seem to change after coming out. My best mate was one of those...he was never really 'manly' as such, but once he came out he was a totally different person, screeching, flouncing around, calling everyone honey/babe...basically the stereotypical gay person that everyone expects. I have got used to it now, but it was a big shock to see how much he changed.

OMG, yeah I've seen plenty do that.

People expected me to do the same, they were all like 'Luke (why don't they call me Lucas, like I ask?) why aren't you skipping?' I was like oh god.

chuff me dizzy · 20-09-2012, 01:21 PM

I think most parents would know long before they were told if their child was gay

fruit_cake · 20-09-2012, 01:22 PM

it wouldn't bother me at all, apart from worrying that I might not get any grandchildren.

Benjamin · 20-09-2012, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Vicky.

Definitely agree with these.

I actually dont understand how so many seem to change after coming out. My best mate was one of those...he was never really 'manly' as such, but once he came out he was a totally different person, screeching, flouncing around, calling everyone honey/babe...basically the stereotypical gay person that everyone expects. I have got used to it now, but it was a big shock to see how much he changed.

See some gay guys are naturally camp, I can deal with that, but yes, those that suddenly become this horrid, little, bitching skank-***** because they think it's what they should be annoys me.

I'd quite like those little 'fags', with their new designer flamboyant weaves, mince into a large bus.