[GiRTh]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

He raised his voice as she was shouting at him,I saw the footage,he felt she should have pulled him aside and told him instead of shouting it to the rest of the house,nothing wrong with that ,I don't dislike her,but really she DOES have faults.

Firstly, she wasnt shouting. Secondly, why should she pull him to one side when everyone is there and he's acting like a 5 year old? He thought she embarrassed him with the way she gave the message but, as she pointed out he'd have never had a go at one of the lads if they'd have done the same thing.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

Well as long as it wasn't said to princess Georgina he'de be ok All those that like Georgina ,hate Marco,I wonder why?

Disliking someone's behaviour is not hating a person, nor is expressing an opinion on that behaviour.

It is also nothing to do with badmouthing that person because of a liking for someone else. I don't particularly like or dislike Georgina!

I think forum members need to be credited with more intelligence than this - such sweeping judgements suggest that anyone who dares to express an opinion on Marco does not have the ability to step back and be objective. They do.

Some people seem to be defending Marco whatever he does, as if he is some 6 year old child, and are selectively ignoring certain things he does! He is a grown man, and that is actually patronising towards him!

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

But he isn't bothering anyone in there. If they are bothered by him they need to tell him.

I disagree with your first comment- the exact reason why they are moaning about him and moving away is because he's bothering them!

I think the aggression he has displayed makes people wary of telling him because he is unpredictable, and they are unsure of how he will react.

Discussing our feelings with others, is a way of understanding them before we feel able to express them sometimes. And sometimes we need a bit of time and thinking things through so that when we do tell someone it can be expressed in a tactful and sensitive way. Maybe that's what's happening here?

[sungrass]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Talking behind his back, then walking away when he comes in. Not nice.

Sadly its most peoples nature to do this to people...

[Visage]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Garfie

I disagree with your first comment- the exact reason why they are moaning about him and moving away is because he's bothering them!

I think the aggression he has displayed makes people wary of telling him because he is unpredictable, and they are unsure of how he will react.

Discussing our feelingts with others, is a way of understanding them before we feel able to express them sometimes. And sometimes we need a bit of time and thinking things through so that when we do tell someone it can be expressed in a tactful and sensitive way. Maybe that's what's happening here?

He was minding his own business yesterday and they still talked about him behind his back. Worse thing they were nice as pie in front of him.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Garfie

Disliking someone's behaviour is not hating a person, nor is expressing an opinion on that behaviour.

It is also nothing to do with badmouthing that person because of a liking for someone else. I don't particularly like or dislike Georgina!

I think forum members need to be credited with more intelligence than this - such sweeping judgements suggest that anyone who dares to express an opinion on Marco does not have the ability to step back and be objective. They do.

Some people seem to be defending Marco whatever he does, as if he is some 6 year old child, and are selectively ignoring certain things he does! He is a grown man, and that is actually patronising towards him!

And some people attack Marco no matter what he does.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Visage

Is that you Visage?

[armand.kay]

Let's evict him to get him out of it.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by Gusto Brunt

Didn't you feel sorry for him how they were starting to slag him off behind his back.

It's like what kids do at school. I'm not Marco's biggest fan but I hate treatment like that.

He bitched about Georgina to Emma that one time... So is he a bully too then?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

Let's evict him to get him out of it.

[Pete.]

Clearly Shilpa 2.0

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

He was minding his own business yesterday and they still talked about him behind his back. Worse thing they were nice as pie in front of him.

Isn't that always the case?

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Isn't that always the case?

That Georgina is a nasty one. She always stars the bitching about him.

[armand.kay]

Everyone bitches about him because he gets on everyone's nerves. Georgina was nowhere near when lateysha and Andy were talking about him... idk why you've decided to single out Georgina as the reason why people don't like him when he's done it to himself.

[Gypsy]

talking behind someones back doesnt mean theyre being bullied lol

it's not like marco treats anyone with respect

[Glenn.]

He deserves to be bullied the wretched despicable piece of ****

[DrunkerThanMoses]

What a pathetic topic of conversation.

No he is not being bully, he is being an annoying twat and pissing the others houseguests off.

If you think he is being bullied, I honestly feel sorry for you, because you are clearly deluded

[VanessaFeltz.]

Can everyone stop calling everything bullying when it is a serious issue that hurts people

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

He deserves to be bullied the wretched despicable piece of ****

No, he doesn't....and calling people a wretched piece of sh-t just sounds cowardly to me.....he's not been vindictive to any of them or bad mouthed any of them....the guys trying to be liked but pushes people away cause he tries too hard ....that doesn't mean he deserves to be cold shouldered like last night...isolating the wierd kid is playground mentality ...it's no more mature than the behaviour he displays by being hyper....it's a front he's putting on and it's more obvious right after incidents like that take place...that singing and performance in front of Andy is a cover up....prob for how crap he felt about them all just walking away like they did....try looking behind the smoke screen he puts up and you will see in his expression there's a lot going on and it ain't all happy stuff....his not all bad ....he was straight over to Andy when the others called him boring and he was visibly gutted when Chelsea left and offered to swap places with him.....in any situation people have the choice to just look at the surface and be superficial or they can be kinder and look a bit deeper....you shud try it, it's a far more interesting

[Yaki da]

Is it possible for any arsehole who people get fed up of, not being thought of as being bullied?

[Shaun]

embarrassing thread

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

That Georgina is a nasty one. She always stars the bitching about him.

Youre right that she doesn't like him.....But i think she has made it clear she don't like him and he knows where he stands with her....she's honest about it ...I like them both but no reason they should like each other....if I was in there I wud gravitate to him completely....id be fascinated to find out who he really is....as opposed to someone like Ryan who I can read like a book and can neither surprise me or interest me on any level.

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by hot2go

No, he doesn't....and calling people a wretched piece of sh-t just sounds cowardly to me.....he's not been vindictive to any of them or bad mouthed any of them....the guys trying to be liked but pushes people away cause he tries too hard ....that doesn't mean he deserves to be cold shouldered like last night...isolating the wierd kid is playground mentality ...it's no more mature than the behaviour he displays by being hyper....it's a front he's putting on and it's more obvious right after incidents like that take place...that singing and performance in front of Andy is a cover up....prob for how crap he felt about them all just walking away like they did....try looking behind the smoke screen he puts up and you will see in his expression there's a lot going on and it ain't all happy stuff....his not all bad ....he was straight over to Andy when the others called him boring and he was visibly gutted when Chelsea left and offered to swap places with him.....in any situation people have the choice to just look at the surface and be superficial or they can be kinder and look a bit deeper....you shud try it, it's a far more interesting

Yes he does and I won't hear anymore

[hot2go]

Originally Posted by Glenn.

Yes he does and I won't hear anymore

Oh ...His Masters Voice