[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Beso

Only Ali's ADHD has been diagnosed. She has diagnosed herself as having Autistic traits

How can you possibly know that


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[Beso]

Originally Posted by Zizu

How can you possibly know that


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Cause she said it herself on the 1st or 2nd night.

She said she was diagnosed with adhd, but sees some autistic traits in herself.

Like I said the other day, it's better to watch the show, then post. Rather than posting whilst watching. You pick up a lot more info that way.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Beso

Like I said the other day, it's better to watch the show, then post. Rather than posting whilst watching. You pick up a lot more info that way.

Bollox

I record then watch with a delay

So watch pause post. .. watch pause post

Don’t let the truth or facts get in the way of your amateur sleuthing though ..baseless nonsense ..


I also watch 3 hours LIVE STREAM each night- do you ?


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[Mystic Mock]

You bring an interesting perspective to the Forum.
@Garfie

[Maru]

Originally Posted by Garfie

Beautiful, Zizu!

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

You bring an interesting perspective to the Forum.
@Garfie

I love when the BB forum is active. It is more wholesome in some ways because the rarer people come back and we get to have nice conversations and treats like this...

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Maru

I love when the BB forum is active. It is more wholesome in some ways because the rarer people come back and we get to have nice conversations and treats like this...

I like it because it can mean that we can have more varied opinions that we don't really get as much of during off-season.

Which any member is welcome to join us off-season if they so wish.

We have Politics, General Chat, TV, Movie, Video Game, and Porn chats.

The good stuff.

[Ammi]

…just to say also that Ali is a forensic/criminal psychologist specifically, so negative traits is something she’s highlighted to and looks for…and whether she’s correct or not, she obviously feels that she sees something that jars her with Khaled…just like some in the thread have said that they feel some knowledge about autistic traits and adhd etc because of their jobs…well, she’s also being led by what she feels through experience maybe as well…?…that doesn’t mean that anyone is correct, it just means that they’re trying to implement a learned and instinctive skill set…and we all form our thoughts on life experience which Ali possibly is as well…she didn’t look great last night and she may be in real danger this week but I’m not going to criticise her for criticising Khaled harshly and then criticise her harshly in the same vein…that kind of made sense in my head…

[GlitterUK]

Interesting when Emma was crying Ali came into the conversation and rather console Emma or ask why she was upset she turned the conversation around to herself. I would love to see Ali and Emma argue and see who wins.

Anyone get the impression Ali dislikes most men? I wish Ali would stop doing her job in big brother and just be herself.

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

Interesting when Emma was crying Ali came into the conversation and rather console Emma or ask why she was upset she turned the conversation around to herself. I would love to see Ali and Emma argue and see who wins.

Anyone get the impression Ali dislikes most men? I wish Ali would stop doing her job in big brother and just be herself.

Interesting.. I was listening to Ali comfort a stressed out Daze ..

All I heard was Daze explaining her side and Ali listening then constantly reassuring her

How odd ..

Hopefully we get to see their conversation tomorrow night


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[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

Interesting when Emma was crying Ali came into the conversation and rather console Emma or ask why she was upset she turned the conversation around to herself. I would love to see Ali and Emma argue and see who wins.

Anyone get the impression Ali dislikes most men? I wish Ali would stop doing her job in big brother and just be herself.

Disappointingly Ali has it in for the boys it seems. And she needs to leave Khaled alone. I truly believe he's genuine. It's barely been a week and she was already turning some of the housemates against him.

I'm hoping Nathan & Rosie continue to think for themselves ,they both seemed surprised by Ali's remarks about Khaled and they both think ( and rightly so) that he's a nice genuine guy.

I really hope this backfires on Ali big time,I'm not liking how ice cold she is towards people especially Khaled. Apparently it's a crime to be the concerning nice guy now ... seriously get in the bin Ali ! .

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by GlitterUK

Interesting when Emma was crying Ali came into the conversation and rather console Emma or ask why she was upset she turned the conversation around to herself. I would love to see Ali and Emma argue and see who wins.

Anyone get the impression Ali dislikes most men? I wish Ali would stop doing her job in big brother and just be herself.

…no, I have to say that I don’t get that impression at all…all we’ve seen of her is in the BB house and there’s only one disconnection with a male and that’s Khaled so I don’t get at all how that could equate to ‘most men’…and she’s been very clear in that she feels it’s because he’s very ‘measured’ and contrived even in his actions and thinking about what he feels he wants to present as a personality rather than who he really is…as emotionless as she seemed in her conversation with him, she was surely being herself and wasn’t thinking about how she would be perceived…if she was then that conversation wouldn’t have been what it was, surely…she would have just said…yeah, it’s all cool and dandy, let’s move on/type thing…she genuinely seems to believe he’s contrived and can’t get beyond that atm to form any sort of understanding with him…are my thoughts, anyway…

[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…no, I have to say that I don’t get that impression at all…all we’ve seen of her is in the BB house and there’s only one disconnection with a male and that’s Khaled so I don’t get at all how that could equate to ‘most men’…and she’s been very clear in that she feels it’s because he’s very ‘measured’ and contrived even in his actions and thinking about what he feels he wants to present as a personality rather than who he really is…as emotionless as she seemed in her conversation with him, she was surely being herself and wasn’t thinking about how she would be perceived…if she was then that conversation wouldn’t have been what it was, surely…she would have just said…yeah, it’s all cool and dandy, let’s move on/type thing…she genuinely seems to believe he’s contrived and can’t get beyond that atm to form any sort of understanding with him…are my thoughts, anyway…

I don't get the impression she dislikes all the men either.

Can't say I can see the reason behind feeling like Khaled is fake. Haven't really seen it myself, but that's her opinion and TBF to her she was more than happy to go up to him and express her thoughts.

I found the conversation refreshing. She said what she said very openly and politely and left it at that.

From clips I have seen, Khaled doesn't seem to want to let it lie. He's upset by it, which he is entitled to be.

It's life, not everyone gets on

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by Ammi

…no, I have to say that I don’t get that impression at all…all we’ve seen of her is in the BB house and there’s only one disconnection with a male and that’s Khaled so I don’t get at all how that could equate to ‘most men’…and she’s been very clear in that she feels it’s because he’s very ‘measured’ and contrived even in his actions and thinking about what he feels he wants to present as a personality rather than who he really is…as emotionless as she seemed in her conversation with him, she was surely being herself and wasn’t thinking about how she would be perceived…if she was then that conversation wouldn’t have been what it was, surely…she would have just said…yeah, it’s all cool and dandy, let’s move on/type thing…she genuinely seems to believe he’s contrived and can’t get beyond that atm to form any sort of understanding with him…are my thoughts, anyway…

I think this is a very honest and rational summary of events, Ammi. I am not, personally seeing Khaled as fake. I just see a decent young guy, who is trying to treat others kindly and trying his best to fit in. To me, that’s understandable in the first week of meeting new people, and not a negative. I accept that, to some housemates, that might feel he is trying too hard, but I don’t feel he’s coming from a bad place.

Despite my understanding and defence of those on the Autistic Spectrum, I didn’t like what she did, or how she handled her feelings. She could have had a private conversation, and discussed her perception with him one-to-one. There was no need to call him out and humiliate him in a public setting - to me that was harsh, even though I understand that, to her, it was just being upfront and honest.

Part of me also feels that her thought process has been based on an analysis she might have made from a professional standpoint, which she would understand much more, rather than on social etiquette, that she would struggle to understand as effectively.

People on the spectrum can become quite fixated on certain things, and I think that she might have fixated on a certain view of Khaled that she can’t shake, and that is now affecting her perception of everything he says and does, even though it might not be justified.

In this instance, despite understanding it, I feel Ali’s actions were unnecessary and wrong, and I wish she would take a step back and think about the impact of public accusations and humiliation on an individual. Even if, in a social setting she might not understand that, she should be able to understand it from a professional basis.

[GoldHeart]

The funny thing is everything Ali is accusing others of doing or more specifically Khaled, she's actually doing herself.... it's more like projection.

[thesheriff443]

Ali actually reminds me of the time nasty nick was in the house

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Ali actually reminds me of the time nasty nick was in the house

Oh yeah , he breathed oxygen , drank water and ate food as well !!!


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[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Zizu

Oh yeah , he breathed oxygen , drank water and ate food as well !!!


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Look you need calm the fcuk down
People are allowed opinions based on what we have seen learned and experienced

[Zizu]

Originally Posted by thesheriff443

Look you need calm the fcuk down
People are allowed opinions based on what we have seen learned and experienced

I am perfectly calm .. seems it’s you who is stressing- I simply don’t agree with your ridiculous ( imho) comparison


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[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Zizu

I am perfectly calm .. seems it’s you who is stressing- I simply don’t agree with your ridiculous ( imho) comparison


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I won’t been feeding you any more

[Crimson Dynamo]

Has Ali actually spent any time with the boys bar Nathan

Has she got an issue with hetro men??

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by Crimson Dynamo

Has Ali actually spent any time with the boys bar Nathan

Has she got an issue with hetro men??

I'm starting to think she only gets on with Nathan and she thinks they're 2 peas in a pod... he's very much in the bosom of her group . But he also gets on with Emma it seems ,I wonder how Ali will feel...if she knew Nathan disagreed with her views on Khaled.

[rusticgal]

Originally Posted by GoldHeart

I'm starting to think she only gets on with Nathan and she thinks they're 2 peas in a pod... he's very much in the bosom of her group . But he also gets on with Emma it seems ,I wonder how Ali will feel...if she knew Nathan disagreed with her views on Khaled.

I have a feeling something went down last night and Khaled got a little ganged up on...Nathan came to his defence I think...hence the conversation between Nathan and Daze. Nathan seems unaware of Ali's dislike of Khalid so maybe it will all come to light...Nathan needs to steer clear.

[Maru]

I heard on livefeed or l&l, forget which, that dishes etc kept piling up and would have been nice if everyone was doing their part, even if bits here and there. So I think it is becoming more of an annoyance for a few people in there, not just one person?