[Crimson Dynamo]

We are constantly told that men think about sex every 7 seconds, that they are non biologically monogamous, that our make up is to procreate with as many as possible to spread the gene pool etc

Women are different and need to keep a mate etc they counterbalance the male urges etc and thus the 2 are well suited.

So what hope do 2 men who are homosexual have of having a steady and happy relationship. Should this whole gay "wedding" thing be scrapped as it is a non starter or do 2 men being together by law somehow biologically change?

Surely lesbian "weddings" make much more sense?

[Dr.Gonzo]

Misleading title. You're thinking more about 'marriage', eh? Because, of course, gay weddings can and do work. It's two of the same sex reading vows rather than one of each sex.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dr.Gonzo

Misleading title. You're thinking more about 'marriage', eh? Because, of course, gay weddings can and do work. It's two of the same sex reading vows rather than one of each sex.

you get the jis t?

[Dr.Gonzo]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

you get the jis t?

I do. With no help at all from the title of the thread.

[BB_Eye]

Inevitably less gay weddings are going to happen than straight weddings. There is very little incentive to start a family and men are generally less inclined towards monogamy, but people should still have the choice either way. One size doesn't fit all.

[Dr.Gonzo]

Originally Posted by BB_Eye

Inevitably less gay weddings are going to happen than straight weddings. There is very little incentive to start a family and men are generally less inclined towards monogamy, but people should still have the choice either way. One size doesn't fit all.

It can do with enough lube.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dr.Gonzo

It can do with enough lube.

lets not go down that root

[InOne]

That is like saying can Islamic "weddings" work at all.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by InOne

That is like saying can Islamic "weddings" work at all.

racist

[InOne]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

racist

Homophobe.

[GhettoSuperstar]

Originally Posted by InOne

That is like saying can Islamic "weddings" work at all.

This.

All people are different. And everybody has different levels of psychological components. In other words, you could have a really sexually active woman and a co-dependant man.

From my own observations the major threat to any gay marriage is that is it constantly being judged. If someone (or two people) are being judged more than straight people then it puts more pressure on them.

But what can potentially make a gay marriage stronger is the above. They have both been through the same pressures and then this can draw them closer together.

At the end of the day, this is crap because every individual is different.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by GhettoSuperstar

This.

All people are different. And everybody has different levels of psychological components. In other words, you could have a really sexually active woman and a co-dependant man.

From my own observations the major threat to any gay marriage is that is it constantly being judged. If someone (or two people) are being judged more than straight people then it puts more pressure on them.

But what can potentially make a gay marriage stronger is the above. They have both been through the same pressures and then this can draw them closer together.

At the end of the day, this is crap because every individual is different.

what are the stats of success between homosexual and lesbian marriage success?

[GhettoSuperstar]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

what are the stats of success between homosexual and lesbian marriage success?

This question makes no sense. Grammar please.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by GhettoSuperstar

This question makes no sense. Grammar please.

Don't be like that. It's fairly obvious what the question was.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by GhettoSuperstar

This question makes no sense. Grammar please.

do lesbian marriages succeed more than homosexual ones?



sorry that the last post was so encrypted that you had to turn on your pedant shield to deal with it..

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by GhettoSuperstar

This.

All people are different. And everybody has different levels of psychological components. In other words, you could have a really sexually active woman and a co-dependant man.

From my own observations the major threat to any gay marriage is that is it constantly being judged. If someone (or two people) are being judged more than straight people then it puts more pressure on them.

But what can potentially make a gay marriage stronger is the above. They have both been through the same pressures and then this can draw them closer together.

At the end of the day, this is crap because every individual is different.

Great points, I hate these men/women generalisations every person is individual therefore different

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Niamhxo

Great points, I hate these men/women generalisations every person is individual therefore different

Whilst everyone realises that obvious point that does not help make policy, rules and legislation - it does not help us see trends.

it would also render this part of the forum redundant.

I do not see people raising this point when talking about Christians, Muslims, Catholics?

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Whilst everyone realises that obvious point that does not help make policy, rules and legislation - it does not help us see trends.

it would also render this part of the forum redundant.

I do not see people raising this point when talking about Christians, Muslims, Catholics?

raising what point that Catholics, Muslims and Christians are all individuals too? Of course they are

[setanta]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

Whilst everyone realises that obvious point that does not help make policy, rules and legislation - it does not help us see trends.

it would also render this part of the forum redundant.

I do not see people raising this point when talking about Christians, Muslims, Catholics?

You're very dull sometimes LT in your efforts to classify, tag or condemn groups that you have absolutely no regard for. Remember you compared murderers to homosexuals in another thread involving Jesus? It's fairly transparent to me what you're trying to achieve here.

[Dr.Gonzo]

LT, it seems like your thread topics are aimed at stirring up the masses. Between you and me, it always seems to fall flat; you paint yourself as ignorant/stupid and that is all. Your threads are forgotten and only your shortcomings remain.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Dr.Gonzo

LT, it seems like your thread topics are aimed at stirring up the masses. Between you and me, it always seems to fall flat; you paint yourself as ignorant/stupid and that is all. Your threads are forgotten and only your shortcomings remain.

All threads are forgotten, hence their charm and if they did not stir up the masses (or the handful of folk here) they would get no replies.

Threads like "isnt the world lovely" "i like everyone" and "oh what a gay day" would be about as popular as your last thread which was retired with no replies.

This is a legitimate question, I think your holier than thou posts would be better directed at karezza.

take away my threads and this bit of the forum may well be thread bare.

if you dont like the thread either make a new one or keep out

[Scarlett.]

This thread fails

[Ross]

Originally Posted by Chewy

This thread fails

I agree.

[Ross]

I don't get why your debating this. If you don't have to marry a man, it shouldn't be a problem. Unless ofcourse you are going to marry a man and you're simply curious if you're marriage would work.

"Women are different and need to keep a mate etc they counterbalance the male urges etc and thus the 2 are well suited."

Not true. Hence why men are gay, they don't like women. End of.

Everybody is different and wether you choose to believe it or not, being gay/lesbian is normal these days. So yes, gay weddings work as much as a straight wedding. Both can be as happy as each partner makes it, it's not down to ones sexuality at all.

[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by Ross

I don't get why your debating this. If you don't have to marry a man, it shouldn't be a problem. Unless ofcourse you are going to marry a man and you're simply curious if you're marriage would work.

"Women are different and need to keep a mate etc they counterbalance the male urges etc and thus the 2 are well suited."

Not true. Hence why men are gay, they don't like women. End of.

Everybody is different and wether you choose to believe it or not, being gay/lesbian is normal these days. So yes, gay weddings work as much as a straight wedding. Both can be as happy as each partner makes it, it's not down to ones sexuality at all.

But you are missing the point. Your point is valid if men and women were biologically similar with similar sexual needs and profiles. Surely 2 men will be in greater danger of infidelity?