[lily.]

Is it just me who finds it odd that a mod closed the other thread after I questioned the integrity of the mods on here.....?

[lily.]

Or is it just me who says it out loud?

[Vicky.]

Question all you like.

But the rumour being discussed was around since mm&i changed her name. And its not really a good idea to start it all up again. As its only just gone away really.

[MrGaryy]

Not just 'a mod' to be fair. A certain mod.

[ILoveTRW]

I got 3 infraction points today for saying that mario secert could be that he has aids
****ing ridiculous

[lily.]

There's a big jump from 'a rumour' to 'someone found your facebook'.

[Jack_]

Yep, I got the same feeling...odd, to say the least.

[lily.]

Originally Posted by ILoveTRW

I got 3 infraction points today for saying that mario secert could be that he has aids
****ing ridiculous

I fail to see how that broke the site rules.

[MrGaryy]

I got banned for saying 'up yours'. like what the actual ****?

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by ILoveTRW

I got 3 infraction points today for saying that mario secert could be that he has aids
****ing ridiculous

I'm literally laughing so hard at that lmao

The fact you were probably being serious and fair dos but how the hell is that infraction worthy.
PMSL

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by ILoveTRW

I got 3 infraction points today for saying that mario secert could be that he has aids
****ing ridiculous

Laughing at the original post, not the fact you got 3 infraction points for it. Although that is pretty laughable.

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by lily.

There's a big jump from 'a rumour' to 'someone found your facebook'.

Yes, I realise that.

What I meant was I thought it was best closed as to not start that s*** up again.

But you lot just go on.

[lily.]

I asked Joe where he got his info from. He's vague about it.

It seems weird that mm&i would give out the email address associated with his/her facebook if he/she was pretending to be someone else. If he/she had used it to register on here though, the staff would have it, and could use it to find out more. That's to be expected.

What isn't to be expected is for the staff to then discuss it with the members and for the members to make little jibes in the threads.

[MrGaryy]

Let's not beat around the push here - quite blatantly Vicky or Niamh told their posse about it, totally abusing their privileges as mods. I'm not accusing either of you before you ban me, cos i don't know which of you it was, but it's obvious to anyone what happened.

[InOne]

As I said, I wasn't told by a mod. So that bit is nothing to do with me.

[setanta]

Originally Posted by lily.

I asked Joe where he got his info from. He's vague about it.

It seems weird that mm&i would give out the email address associated with his/her facebook if he/she was pretending to be someone else. If he/she had used it to register on here though, the staff would have it, and could use it to find out more. That's to be expected.

What isn't to be expected is for the staff to then discuss it with the members and for the members to make little jibes in the threads.

Completely agree with that.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by lily.

What isn't to be expected is for the staff to then discuss it with the members and for the members to make little jibes in the threads.

Aye but don't say that or else they won't do it in the future, and then chances are we'll never find out anyway.

[lily.]

I'm not sure who's in what posse, but clearly someone has leaked info.

I've been friends with Rory and Greg for a long time and I don't recall them ever discussing TiBB issues with me on MSN or anywhere else.

Looks like not all mods have that standard though.

[lily.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Aye but don't say that or else they won't do it in the future, and then chances are we'll never find out anyway.

Jack, you say that now, because it's about some juicy forum gossip, but if they were to use the info you registered with to pry into your personal life, then share it with others, you wouldn't be so keen, would you?

[Vicky.]

Well I could argue my point, but it looks like your minds are already made up.

Get on with it.

For the record, I dont speak about mod issues over msn either

Not that people who dislike me will believe that

[Locke.]

Go through the chat log and find out who it was

[lily.]

It's not really about like or dislike to be honest.

It's clear to a man with a glass eye that everything is not quite as it seems here.



David, he won't do that. If it was a mod, you can be sure it'll not come out now.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by lily.

Jack, you say that now, because it's about some juicy forum gossip, but if they were to use the info you registered with to pry into your personal life, then share it with others, you wouldn't be so keen, would you?

Fair point, but:

A) I wouldn't pretend to be a little 13 year old girl, or someone I'm not on this or any other forum
B) If you do do that, then you are misleading people and seeking attention...basically trolling

[lily.]

I agree that he/she shouldn't be faking their identity altogether... but you have to look at the bigger picture...

Mods can see your registration details and should not be abusing that.. regardless of what the member is doing... two wrongs do not make a right.

When you register on a site, you expect some kind of privacy for your details. I don't know what TiBB's policy is, but I know mods never used to discuss site business with friends. I was friends with Mike, Red Moon and Sunny01 back in the day and they never discussed anything.

[setanta]

Innocent until proven guilty though Jack, that's always the way it should be, don't you think? I don't want to hear idle speculation and gossip on the forum. There are various avenues to take if you have a problem with a certain member, and I think discretion is very important, for everybody involved and for the health of the forum in general.