[muchadoaboutnothing]

Sorry if this has been brought up already and passed through the pages of time. But i was wondering if Scott did go to his sisters (I think sisters) funeral as we appear to have seen him, at some stage, on every nights HLs shows?

[lostalex]

It's none of our business imo.

[Beastie]

He must not have been close to his sister. I am sure most housemates would leave the house if their sibling has passed away.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Beastie

He must not have been close to his sister. I am sure most housemates would leave the house if their sibling has passed away.

who are you to judge anyone's response to something that personal? It's none of your business and has nothing to do with the TV show Big Brother.

[fruit_cake]

He got very upset with Becky when she mentioned his sister, some might say his anger with Becky came straight out of the blue. It did suggest he's grieving for her.

[Gillian-73]

We don't even know if it was his sister, other than the daily star i don't think anybody else reported it was! Last year Tom went to his grandfather's funeral but from the highlights we wouldn't have known.

[muchadoaboutnothing]

Originally Posted by lostalex

It's none of our business imo.

Blimey - sorry I asked

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by muchadoaboutnothing

Blimey - sorry I asked

Well if you can't respect someone's right to privacy over something as personal as that, then what do you have respect for? Certainly you've got to draw the line somewhere, don't you agree?

[KingOfTheMods]

Originally Posted by lostalex

Well if you can't respect someone's right to privacy over something as personal as that, then what do you have respect for? Certainly you've got to draw the line somewhere, don't you agree?

If he wanted privacy he should have went home. People are bound to be curious.

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by KingOfTheMods

If he wanted privacy he should have went home. People are bound to be curious.

Ic so people's curiosity trumps the right to privacy? really?

[KingOfTheMods]

Originally Posted by lostalex

Ic so people's curiosity trumps the right to privacy? really?

I'm not saying it should, I'm saying it will. That's just the way people are.

[Mrluvaluva]

He could have been. It does not have to necessarily be mentioned on the highlights show.

[Jords]

I think BB are keeping things about Scott and his loss close. And rightly so

[mkbb]

Are you sure it is his sister? He said the other day to Becky I think when she said he was a nasty person something along the lines of "you wouldnt want to meet my sister then thas how we talk to each other all the time. Its a joke". If she had died would he really say that.

[Redway]

I understand the death of one of his family members was always going to cause controversy but it's not for us to decide what's appropriate for him to do. It's a personal matter and it's up to him to choose how to deal with it.

[joeysteele]

I agree with Lostalex and Redway, it is none of our business. It's a very private matter and I also agree as to the comment made above when Scott retorted to Becky about his Sister, clearly it is a sensitive subject.
I just hope, if he needs it that BB are giving him any support behind the scenes that he may need.

[MTVN]

Yeah I don't see much point in speculating

[Petershaw1984]

Originally Posted by Beastie

He must not have been close to his sister. I am sure most housemates would leave the house if their sibling has passed away.

Beastie i love your sig. She is beautiful

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by mkbb

Are you sure it is his sister? He said the other day to Becky I think when she said he was a nasty person something along the lines of "you wouldnt want to meet my sister then thas how we talk to each other all the time. Its a joke". If she had died would he really say that.

He could have more than one sister

[Redway]

If there are members on here who seriously labour under the stupid illusion that they are in any position to decide what someone who clearly has their own mind - and who they will never see again (and don't care much about beyond the show) - then I do worry.

Incidentally, coming from the guy who doesn't worry enough about the effects of smoking to not do it, that's saying something.

[lostalex]

I will just say this. My mom died in 2005. And i didn't want to have anything to do with the funeral preparations. does that mean that i didn't love my mother? does that mean that i'm selfish and horrible? i had some family members that judged me based on that.

I would submit to people, that unless you have had such a major loss in your life, you don't know how you would respond.

Me not wanting to have anything to do with my mom's funeral had nothing at all to do with how much i loved her, and in many ways it was the exact opposite.

Does it not occur to anyone that maybe some people don't want to have anything to do with a funeral because maybe yu arn't very happy to be planning a PARTY for someone's death, that maybe you need to deal with that loss in your own way, and maybe you need to do things in your own way and in your own time.

When it comes to death i think people need to keep their opinions to themselves.

[Marc]

lostalex, calm down. Your replies seem very rude

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Marc

lostalex, calm down. Your replies seem very rude

i havn't said anything rude. If i did i'm sure you would have given me an infraction by now.

[Marc]

Because you haven't insulted anybody. But I don't agree that you can just shut a thread down like that and snap at people saying it's none of their business etc.

It's a forum, to discuss BB related stories, Scott's never going to find this forum and never going to read this thread.

It is strange that somebody wouldn't go to their sister's funeral

[lostalex]

Originally Posted by Marc

Because you haven't insulted anybody. But I don't agree that you can just shut a thread down like that and snap at people saying it's none of their business etc.

It's a forum, to discuss BB related stories, Scott's never going to find this forum and never going to read this thread.

It is strange that somebody wouldn't go to their sister's funeral

I didn't shut anything down, you are a mod though, so you actually do shut threads down. i think it's hilarious that you as a person that has actually shut threads down is accussing me of what you have actually done.

I didn't shut anything down, i'm just emotional about this issue because i know what it's like to be judged for the way i've greived about my loved ones. I have not been rude in any way though.


and saying that Scott is never going to read this threaD/ we have had many former housemates post on this forum, so why would you say that??