Home Menu

Site Navigation


Notices

Chat and Games Looking for forum games, and completely off topic banter - this is your place! (includes Virtual Big Brother type forum games)

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old 18-02-2013, 11:36 PM #1
Brother Leon's Avatar
Brother Leon Brother Leon is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 29,193


Brother Leon Brother Leon is offline
Senior Member
Brother Leon's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 29,193


Default Is It Bad That I Dunno What I Want To Do?

Carried on from a chat with Ammi. I'm 20 and while I may be studying at Uni I legit dunno what I wanna do with my life afterwards. Always been an issue with me. People would know what they wanted to do from early and I would be "I'll see in the future", but I still don't really know tbh.

How bad is this? Am I the only one or is someone else as bad as me? lol
__________________

Brother Leon is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:37 PM #2
Jake.'s Avatar
Jake. Jake. is offline
-
 
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 35,548


Jake. Jake. is offline
-
Jake.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2011
Posts: 35,548


Default

Nope I don't see the problem. You've got so many years yet, sometimes it takes longer for some to find what they want to do
Jake. is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:38 PM #3
Ramsay's Avatar
Ramsay Ramsay is offline
His blood is bad.
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Papua New Guinea
Posts: 29,891

Favourites (more):
BBUSA21: Kathryn
BBUSA20: Brett


Ramsay Ramsay is offline
His blood is bad.
Ramsay's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Papua New Guinea
Posts: 29,891

Favourites (more):
BBUSA21: Kathryn
BBUSA20: Brett


Default

Im 21 and have no idea either its no big deal. im gone past the point of caring
__________________
Ramsay is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:39 PM #4
MTVN's Avatar
MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,369

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
MTVN's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,369

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


Default

Probably in the same position as about 75% of students, I don't have a clue either, most annoying question to be asked
MTVN is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:39 PM #5
LemonJam's Avatar
LemonJam LemonJam is offline
ZakJam <3~
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Zak's mind <3~
Posts: 18,573

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Zak
BBCanada 9: Victoria


LemonJam LemonJam is offline
ZakJam <3~
LemonJam's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Zak's mind <3~
Posts: 18,573

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Zak
BBCanada 9: Victoria


Default

I'm 21 about to leave uni and my plans fell through so I have no idea what to do now.

You're most certainly not alone.
LemonJam is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:39 PM #6
Amy Jade's Avatar
Amy Jade Amy Jade is offline
Queen of Walford
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 52,240

Favourites (more):
BB18: Isabelle
CBB19: Kim Woodburn


Amy Jade Amy Jade is offline
Queen of Walford
Amy Jade's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 52,240

Favourites (more):
BB18: Isabelle
CBB19: Kim Woodburn


Default

Not at all, sometimes people just take longer to find their path.

I'm sure whatever you choose you will excell at though.
Amy Jade is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:41 PM #7
GypsyGoth's Avatar
GypsyGoth GypsyGoth is offline
filthy mudblood
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: that bitch caitlin's place
Posts: 50,183

Favourites (more):
BB16: Amy & Sally
X Factor 2014: Only The Young


GypsyGoth GypsyGoth is offline
filthy mudblood
GypsyGoth's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: that bitch caitlin's place
Posts: 50,183

Favourites (more):
BB16: Amy & Sally
X Factor 2014: Only The Young


Default

I'm not sure, I have ideas of what I want to do. But I'm in no hurry.
__________________
::::: i would give all this and heaven too :::::
GypsyGoth is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:41 PM #8
lostalex's Avatar
lostalex lostalex is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: California
Posts: 18,029


lostalex lostalex is offline
Senior Member
lostalex's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2010
Location: California
Posts: 18,029


Default

All of the people i knew in highschool that said they didn't know what they wanna do when they grow up....they're all unemployed now. (including myself)

If i were you, i'd pick something and just go for it. You can always change your mind later, but i do think you should pick a specific career and go for it.
__________________
Don't be afraid to be weak.

Last edited by lostalex; 18-02-2013 at 11:42 PM.
lostalex is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:45 PM #9
Ammi's Avatar
Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 75,833


Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
Ammi's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 75,833


Default

..ok, I'm just going to paste what I wrote in the igloo Brother Leon...

..no that's not bad at all BL, I think that's good actually...there's so much to do between uni and working and you're still very young so why not explore that first..travel and experience different jobs etc and see what fits and what doesn't and then you'll know you've made the right choice...so many people start their working lives straight away and then a few years down the line, realise they're stuck in a bit of a rut and hadn't given it enough thought when they made their choices....
Ammi is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:51 PM #10
King Gizzard's Avatar
King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
King Gizzard's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


Default

just be grateful you'll have a degree behind you
King Gizzard is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 18-02-2013, 11:54 PM #11
Jesus.
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Jesus.
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Very few people end up doing what they actually want to do. That's life, I'm afraid.

Just finding something that you semi enjoy, and feel like you could do for a few decades is a bonus. You'll be fine.
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 12:26 AM #12
Shaun's Avatar
Shaun Shaun is offline
Ż\_(ツ)_/Ż
 
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 106,482

Favourites (more):
CBB2025: Donna Preston
BB2024: Ali


Shaun Shaun is offline
Ż\_(ツ)_/Ż
Shaun's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 106,482

Favourites (more):
CBB2025: Donna Preston
BB2024: Ali


Default

is it the Baz Luhrmann song that says "the most interesting 40 year olds I know don't know what they want to do with their life"

but yeah I can relate... mixture of the job market being dead, a couple of personal insecurities with my writing and the nature of reviewing and music-blogging being really angry and competitive.
__________________
Spoiler:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Saph View Post
You're giving me a million reasons about a million reasons

Shaun is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 12:28 AM #13
Ramsay's Avatar
Ramsay Ramsay is offline
His blood is bad.
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Papua New Guinea
Posts: 29,891

Favourites (more):
BBUSA21: Kathryn
BBUSA20: Brett


Ramsay Ramsay is offline
His blood is bad.
Ramsay's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Papua New Guinea
Posts: 29,891

Favourites (more):
BBUSA21: Kathryn
BBUSA20: Brett


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Shaun View Post
is it the Baz Luhrmann song that says "the most interesting 40 year olds I know don't know what they want to do with their life"
.
Sunscreen
__________________
Ramsay is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 01:37 PM #14
Legend killer's Avatar
Legend killer Legend killer is offline
Against All Odds
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Paul Pogba's Dungeon
Posts: 11,024

Favourites (more):
BB17: Chelsea
I'maCeleb2015: Jorgie Porter


Legend killer Legend killer is offline
Against All Odds
Legend killer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Paul Pogba's Dungeon
Posts: 11,024

Favourites (more):
BB17: Chelsea
I'maCeleb2015: Jorgie Porter


Default

Hope you have your JSA forms filled out Brother cause you will do well to get a job at McDonalds with or without a degree
__________________
Spoiler:


Sig stretching forum, fix it.
Legend killer is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 01:39 PM #15
Jesus.
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Jesus.
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

LK speaking truth to power.
  Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 01:41 PM #16
MTVN's Avatar
MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,369

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
MTVN's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,369

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


Default

MTVN is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 01:47 PM #17
Ammi's Avatar
Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 75,833


Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
Ammi's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 75,833


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Legend killer View Post
Hope you have your JSA forms filled out Brother cause you will do well to get a job at McDonalds with or without a degree
..I love your optimism in everything LK...
Ammi is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:40 PM #18
Novo's Avatar
Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
Novo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Default

It's best thinking outside the box to make money nowadays, you could be waiting for a Job for years and years and go to countless interviews and not get anywhere, spend that time being inventive and it will all come together
__________________


"She was left for dead on the sands of Tatooine, as was I. But fate sometimes steps in to rescue the wretched."
Novo is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:40 PM #19
King Gizzard's Avatar
King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
King Gizzard's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


Default

said no one ever
King Gizzard is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:46 PM #20
Novo's Avatar
Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
Novo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Default

said the guy who is very satisfied with his life
__________________


"She was left for dead on the sands of Tatooine, as was I. But fate sometimes steps in to rescue the wretched."
Novo is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:48 PM #21
King Gizzard's Avatar
King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


King Gizzard King Gizzard is offline
Senior Member
King Gizzard's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 85,682


Default

said mary
King Gizzard is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:50 PM #22
Novo's Avatar
Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Novo Novo is offline
Senior Member
Novo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Location: England
Posts: 58,822

Favourites (more):
CBB20: Chad Johnson
BB14: Dexter


Default

__________________


"She was left for dead on the sands of Tatooine, as was I. But fate sometimes steps in to rescue the wretched."
Novo is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 05:57 PM #23
Cherie's Avatar
Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 66,521

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
Cherie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 66,521

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by lostalex View Post
All of the people i knew in highschool that said they didn't know what they wanna do when they grow up....they're all unemployed now. (including myself)

If i were you, i'd pick something and just go for it. You can always change your mind later, but i do think you should pick a specific career and go for it.
Pretty good advice there, sometimes one thing leads to another, but you have to have your foot in the door of some career, even if it is just a part time job its a bit of experience and life skills yadda yadda yadda.
Cherie is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 08:42 PM #24
Legend killer's Avatar
Legend killer Legend killer is offline
Against All Odds
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Paul Pogba's Dungeon
Posts: 11,024

Favourites (more):
BB17: Chelsea
I'maCeleb2015: Jorgie Porter


Legend killer Legend killer is offline
Against All Odds
Legend killer's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Paul Pogba's Dungeon
Posts: 11,024

Favourites (more):
BB17: Chelsea
I'maCeleb2015: Jorgie Porter


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Novo View Post
It's best thinking outside the box to make money nowadays, you could be waiting for a Job for years and years and go to countless interviews and not get anywhere, spend that time being inventive and it will all come together
__________________
Spoiler:


Sig stretching forum, fix it.
Legend killer is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Old 19-02-2013, 08:44 PM #25
Apple202's Avatar
Apple202 Apple202 is offline
for those who've fallen
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: bleeding love
Posts: 4,852

Favourites (more):
BB14: Hazel
BB13: Deana
Apple202 Apple202 is offline
for those who've fallen
Apple202's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2012
Location: bleeding love
Posts: 4,852

Favourites (more):
BB14: Hazel
BB13: Deana
Default

Apple202 is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Reply

Bookmark/share this topic

Tags
bad, dunno


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 05:52 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
 

About Us ThisisBigBrother.com

"Big Brother and UK Television Forum. Est. 2001"

 

© 2023
no new posts