[Ammi]

..I've always thought that by definition it is but not in a judgemental way because I think that people can be in such a dark/lost place that they are incapable of seeing beyond themselves and their emotional pain and have lost all of their coping skills...but obviously such an extreme act leaves much pain for the people who loved them...I know this topic has been discussed before but I'm really interested in hearing people's thoughts about it...is it selfish..?...

..also, what if there was no extreme emotional pain but it was more of a 'whim' type thing..?...do you know anyone who has committed suicide..?...