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06-03-2017, 10:48 AM | #26 | |||
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Obviously body dysmophic disorder is different to transgender.. that was almost painful for me to read.
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06-03-2017, 10:49 AM | #27 | ||
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Well no, because nearly every story I have heard/read is exactly the same. Except for the late transitioning males like Jenner who were actually turned on by putting on their daughters underwear..of course. Those are in a different league...
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06-03-2017, 10:49 AM | #28 | ||
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How is it? please explain to me as I don't see the difference?!
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06-03-2017, 10:50 AM | #29 | ||
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06-03-2017, 10:50 AM | #30 | |||
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Comments like this are the reason why people may be afraid to talk about this subject. It's not obvious at all Withano, it seems very similar infact
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06-03-2017, 10:59 AM | #31 | |||
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A short summary of both would be
One disliking the way that they look - more visual/emotional One disliking the way that they are - more cognitive A body dysmophic person doesnt think they are a good looking person in a bad looking persons body. A transgender person sees an accurate representation of the way that they look Quote:
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06-03-2017, 11:05 AM | #32 | |||
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Sorry, i just sort of think comments like that create a negative stigma (for both very real communities) which hinder any progress.. both communities are suffering everyday and people saying to them 'eh, isnt that just this, did i just solve all your issues?' Is just a bit tactless fir me. that sort of comment isnt an uncommon misconception which makes it upsetting for me to read. I didnt mean it as a put down, I was genuinely explaining how I personally felt reading it.
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06-03-2017, 11:12 AM | #33 | |||
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06-03-2017, 11:28 AM | #34 | |||
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be who you want
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06-03-2017, 12:15 PM | #35 | |||
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06-03-2017, 12:23 PM | #36 | |||
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Dame Jenni Murray has written of her fury over transgender women who claim the label of “real woman”
ok who specifically are we talking about here? which women, what are their names? |
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06-03-2017, 01:10 PM | #37 | ||
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http://www.daniellemuscato.com/ Again, depends on your meaning of transwoman though doesn't it. My understanding of it until recently was someone who had 'transitioned' so to speak, meaning had SRS or is planning it (seriously, not as a new whim thing). But I mean...if we are to take this 'you are whatever you say you are' and 'its nothing to do with sex stereotypes' to its logical conclusion, then Danielle is indeed as much a woman as a female person and it is bigoted to say anything but? I actually used to think Danielle was a parody...however there are more and more people like 'her'. There are actually 'transwomen' out there telling lesbians that they are bigoted for not wanting penis. And so on.
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06-03-2017, 01:15 PM | #38 | ||
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Again, what are your thoughts on trans-abled people? Surely thats exactly the same as transgender? Directing me to reddit is not a good idea After I formed my opinions on this, I was directed to reddit a lot to try and prove me wrong and thats where I discovered how it really was NOT rare for transwomen to feel lesbians were 'transphobic' for not sucking their 'ladydicks' and such. Its where I discovered the phenomena of many many transwomen who realised they were trans after curiously trying on their teenage daughters panties and discovering doing so gave them an erection...and so on. So yeah, while trying to get AWAY from whats claimed to be 'extremists' in this case, reddit is really not the place to send people
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06-03-2017, 02:15 PM | #39 | |||
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06-03-2017, 02:22 PM | #40 | ||
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06-03-2017, 02:25 PM | #41 | |||
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she could at least shave the beard
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06-03-2017, 02:27 PM | #42 | ||
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Its not about stereotypes though is it? Nothing to do with looks, biology or anything. SOLELY a 'feeling' that you are a woman? Isn't this the current line?
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06-03-2017, 02:33 PM | #43 | |||
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if you say so
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06-03-2017, 02:35 PM | #44 | ||
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06-03-2017, 02:40 PM | #45 | ||
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All human embryos start out as female they only change to a male after several weeks if dna changes happen.
For me this is a link between people feeling they are born in the wrong body. Treat others as you want to be treated and you wont go wrong. |
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06-03-2017, 02:50 PM | #46 | ||
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Treat others as you wish to be treated, let people wear what they like without prejudice, look however they like, have whatever surgery they like...agreed. But sex kind of does matter.
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06-03-2017, 03:03 PM | #47 | ||
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06-03-2017, 03:40 PM | #48 | |||
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Nobody chooses to be transgender. People who do go through the transition do so to feel more like their true self. How can we say they aren’t real women or real men when gender is more complicated than being man or woman.
As for stereotyping, everyone is put in boxes by their families, their religion, by society even by our own bodies. Gender has always been considered a fact, immutable, but we now know its more fluid, complex and mysterious and not just about the genitalia we were born with. Why should a male who has transitioned to become a female accept she should be known as transgender? This wasn’t some flippant decision; it’s a huge life changing decision and its such a public thing it has to be terrifying. When my male friend started uni, on his signing in day a woman called out his name and then loudly declared that she’d made a mistake because they thought he was a boy, not a girl. The truth is, he couldn’t go anywhere or do anything without someone noticing and so during the transitioning process his life was full of stares, sniggers and whispers. I can’t imagine how hard that must have been, can you? As far as I'm concerned he's all 'man' and he's a ****ing hero.
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06-03-2017, 03:46 PM | #49 | ||
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Demolition...what is your definition of man/woman?
Yes, gender is more complicated than sex. Because gender...is all in ones head.
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06-03-2017, 03:48 PM | #50 | ||
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