[smudgie]

Here we go.
So, you haven't spoken to your little sister for 8 years, she dies, do you ..
A) be a hypocrite and go to the funeral. ( possibly upsetting her daughter).
B) go regardless just so nobody can talk about you not going.
C) sit at home thinking of her.
I am interested to hear what people think about this as it would give me some understanding either way.
Please note, this is NOT a sympathy thread.