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Exclamation Are you shocked Gani married his cousin and has a kid?

Research has found children from first-cousin marriages are more likely to
suffer birth defects and developmental problems.

3 days ago Wes Streeting The Health Secretary called for an apology after an
NHS website suggested there are benefits to first-cousin marriage, despite the
known increased risk of birth defects.

He said “First-cousin marriages are high risk and unsafe, we see the genetic
defects it causes, the harm that it causes.

Research, including from the long-running Born in Bradford study, has found
children from first-cousin marriages are more likely to have speech and
language difficulties, less likely to reach a “good stage of development” and
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I’m not shocked he married his cousin, no. It’s quite traditional for families from Southern India.

I am shocked he’s married though. He didn’t give me married vibes.
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I’m not shocked he married his cousin, no. It’s quite traditional for families from Southern India.

I am shocked he’s married though. He didn’t give me married vibes.
especially when he casually said he was having gay sex for 2 years prior to getting married to a woman!
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especially when he casually said he was having gay sex for 2 years prior to getting married to a woman!
I can’t speak for him or people of his heritage, but I know people from families of that heritage that have been disowned by their families for being gay or refusing to an arranged marriage.

The way he was speaking about it, he sounded like he’d caved to his family’s wishes and is now trapped and lost. He seemed very dejected.
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A bit shocked he's a dad, but only really because parents usually make a song and dance about it which he didn't do. Marrying your cousin sounds iffy tho but I think it's normal in Indian culture
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A bit shocked he's a dad, but only really because parents usually make a song and dance about it which he didn't do. Marrying your cousin sounds iffy tho but I think it's normal in Indian culture
This is the UK

It should not be tolerated and costs the NHS millions
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It seemed to me that he leaves his cousin wife and kid at home while he goes out and does his bi thing?

The whole thing seems pretty degenerate to me. It seems like he just leaves them at home while he goes out shagging whoever?

But, yeah, cousin marriage should not be normalised in the UK. Not all things are ok just because they happen in another part of the world.
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Did he say it was his first cousin? Obviously not normal in Western society but a pretty normal thing in India I think. Obviously I wouldn't be in favour of it but it's normal in his world and what he would have grown up with
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I don't believe it's illegal to marry your cousin here, probably because our royal family did it all the time. When Charles married Diana that was seen as a break with tradition and them widening the gene pool. It definitely seemed to have some mixed results
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Did he say it was his first cousin? Obviously not normal in Western society but a pretty normal thing in India I think. Obviously I wouldn't be in favour of it but it's normal in his world and what he would have grown up with
he grew up in England didnt he?
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It's actually not all that common in India and is mainly concentrated in certain regions and certain peoples. It's much more common in Pakistan and in Muslim families generally

I feel sorry for his wife tbh, he clearly has no affection for her and it doesn't seem like he has that much for his child
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Did he? He has an Indian accent though (says he from India in this article below)

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…he said in his bio that he’d like to be known by millions and he sees BB as an opportunity not only for his personal growth, but also to help build the future of his personal brand…he also says that he loves his wife and child and would like to stay married…so many choices that he’s able to explore and in terms of his bi-sexuality and relationships as well, maybe…?…



…I do so much feel for his wife, I have to say…because she was also in an arranged marriage and I doubt that she has or ever would have similar opportunities for ‘personal growth…’…and everything he hopes to achieve in life goals…
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…I think from my understanding from articles in quotes that Gani is meant to have made…he’s said that he’s fine/happy to stay married in that commitment but that his wife has to accept his lifestyles/his ambitions/his goals and paths etc…I can’t see an ‘us/we’ in that marriage…I can only see me/my/and whatever I choose…
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It's actually not all that common in India and is mainly concentrated in certain regions and certain peoples. It's much more common in Pakistan and in Muslim families generally

I feel sorry for his wife tbh, he clearly has no affection for her and it doesn't seem like he has that much for his child
…oh I just said that before I saw your post…
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Not shocked he is married to his cousin, but shocked he has a wife and child as has not mentioned them, would love him to stay tonight but sadly I dont think he will
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Basically a dirty cheating bastard treating his wife like a doormat
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................shocked! that we went along 'n got married despite it not being what he really wanted................

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Not shocked. Marrying first cousins is rife in Asian communities, as are defects in the children they produce as a result.
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A bit shocked he's a dad, but only really because parents usually make a song and dance about it which he didn't do. Marrying your cousin sounds iffy tho but I think it's normal in Indian culture

Gani .. making a song and dance about something

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Well considering his ‘back story’ I don’t see his ‘brand’ becoming one known and loved by millions … not even close.

Didn’t he also say something about working or associating with Dua Lipa as well - I don’t see that happening either .


I really don’t care at all for what I heard to be honest and he seemed to be putting the blame for a lot of it on his father


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I don't believe it's illegal to marry your cousin here, probably because our royal family did it all the time. When Charles married Diana that was seen as a break with tradition and them widening the gene pool. It definitely seemed to have some mixed results
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There are concerns as to possible health issues with children but first cousins CAN marry legally in the UK.

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I’m not shocked he married his cousin, no. It’s quite traditional for families from Southern India.

I am shocked he’s married though. He didn’t give me married vibes.
Yeah I assumed he was single and I didn't know he had kids either.
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