[_Seth]

Don't you just hate that? You tell someone something in confidence and trust them with a secret, make them promise not to tell anyone and the next day everyone knows. It's like WTF?

[hannah.]

i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

[Princess]

McSteamy in your sig! Wooo. That never tends to happen with me,usually cos I don't tell secrets or I tell everyone.

[Jords]

Keep your secrets to yourself Phlip, best thing if you want it kept quiet.

[Patrick]

Originally Posted by hannah.

i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

This.

I just have to tell everyone just when Im bored and theres nothing to talk about.

[hannah.]

and if i manage to keep a secret (rare) as soon as i have one drink it all comes pouring out

[_Seth]

^Why the hell can't you or Patrick keep secrets? Well ok fair enough, but if someone wanted to tell you a secret would you promise them you wouldn't tell anyone else? Or would say but I must warn you, if I get bored I'll blab?

[Princess]

That's not very good Patrick,if you get bored! There is other things to do

I never tell anyone's secrets *goody-two shoes*

[Jords]

I love being told secrets, makes me feel wanted which is nice tbh.
I never blab either, wouldnt want somebody to do it to me if I told them a secret.

[hannah.]

Originally Posted by Phlip

^Why the hell can't you or Patrick keep secrets? Well ok fair enough, but if someone wanted to tell you a secret would you promise them you wouldn't tell anyone else? Or would say but I must warn you, if I get bored I'll blab?

some people just can't. everyone who knows me knows i can't do it

[Jords]

Do you feel pressured Hannah? Or just a gossip?

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by hannah.

i'm very bad at keeping secrets. even my own

me too
I always want to tell just ONE person, then it gets around...

[Captain.Remy]

That's exactly why I never tell my secrets. One thing life taught me is "Trust no one".

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Captain.Remy

That's exactly why I never tell my secrets. One thing life taught me is "Trust no one".

Very true Remy, though I trust a few, but tend to keep most things to myself, that way, I know who knows what!

[teamandre]

yea but if yuo are close to some one and ask them not to tell any 1 then thay should keep it to them selfs its like when they ask me to keep somthing to my self i do so why carnt they do the same !

[Niamh.]

because the person you tells goes to another person and says don't tell anyone but..........and so on and so on

[30stone]

Easy to keep a secret tell my closest friend though and he dont tell no one.

[Mrluvaluva]

You learn by your mistakes. I am sure you won't be telling that person any secrets again. It's nice to really trust someone, but unfortunately those people come few and far between in life, unless you are lucky.

[Crimson Dynamo]

On average if you say that to someone they then tell 2 people. This is a fact.

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

On average if you say that to someone they then tell 2 people. This is a fact.

Fact 23 in the Gavin/President/Trumpet book of facts.

[BB_Eye]

Originally Posted by Phlip

Don't you just hate that? You tell someone something in confidence and trust them with a secret, make them promise not to tell anyone and the next day everyone knows. It's like WTF?

It's only happened to me once thankfully. I had a habit of trusting the wrong people in my teens.

[sooty]

"Do not tell anyone" or "Do not panick" people normally react opposite.


But if a friend told me her secret, I will keep it secret.
This is the key to having trust.


Also at work, for example, I know all staff's salaries how much they earn, so I am the right person for the job.

[Smithy]

Im good at keeping secrets, its just people i tell who cant

[Beastie]

Im good at keeping secrets. Phillip you need to learn just not to tell that person anything any more. I used to love knowing people's secrets but usually it can end in disaster or someone has said well so and so knew all along then people will say "why didnt you tell me" ahh I don't know lol

[Stu]

I tend to get told a lot of secrets by my friends because generally I'm known as the guy who couldn't really give a crap about others problems so I am less likely to repeat them to anyone else. It's a role I enjoy, really. I was never one for discussing private things with mates so I never talk about it, so in turn everyone trusts me with their secrets and I never tell them back.