[Denver]

Basically a friend of mine has gone to meet a girl who i believe is lying about her age as infact underage what should i do? also she told my friend that she been sleeping with an 14 year old while she is 18 but then claimed it was a joke and didnt happen im really not sure what to do?

[Cherie]

All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Cherie

All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

i have but he says she isnt

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Adam.

i have but he says she isnt

Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

[caprimint]

All you can do is tell him your opinion/thoughts or anything you know. Obviously if you have no factual information to prove anything then he's most likely not gonna listen anyway and follow his heart not his head.

I'm assuming you know her full name, try and do a bit of research on her if possible.

Originally Posted by Cherie

just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

if he does go ahead and she i underage thats our friendship done

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Adam.

if he does go ahead and she i underage thats our friendship done

Fair enough

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by Cherie

All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

Yeah this, I can't think of anything else you could do tbh.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Cherie

All you can do is tell him you have concerns about her actual age and to be careful, after that it's up to him really

Originally Posted by Cherie

Boys in lust are sometimes blind, that said its not really your issue now, you have told him, he's not having it, so you guys will probably fall out if you persist, just ready yourself to visit him in prison.

..this really, you've told him your concerns Adam and that is being a friend to him but we can't control the actions of our friends even with something like this...if he really likes her a lot then anything negative you say may also only make you the 'bad guy' so you have to be careful there as well in that you could just push him away...he knows your concerns now and it's just hoping that he'll heed them and be careful to be certain of her age...

[Daniel-X]

Try and do some snooping on her social media profiles, she's bound to have a picture in her uniform or something or have like 'happy ___ birthday' if she is underage Adam. Then just send him screenshots if you find out she is.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

Try and do some snooping on her social media profiles, she's bound to have a picture in her uniform or something or have like 'happy ___ birthday' if she is underage Adam. Then just send him screenshots if you find out she is.

tried that and its locked as we are not freinds but from the pic i seen she looks 13

[Denver]

ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

[Ramsay]

Originally Posted by Adam.

ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any any it doesnt matter to him

Hahaha RUN FAR AWAY
I mean it could just be the fact that she might look at a bit young and still be legal i know a few girls like that, it happens but no ID at all? dodgy.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Adam.

ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

She would have a school id if in sixth form or college

[Vicky.]

Originally Posted by Adam.

ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

Hes dodgy. Anyone who wouldn't care about this is ****ing dodgy

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by Adam.

ive asked him to check ID any he said she doesnt have any and it doesnt matter to him

Tell him it SHOULD matter, because if their relationship goes wrong and she accuses him of rape (which unfortunately seems to be happening more and more often nowadays) AND she turns out to be underage, your friend could find himself on the sex offenders registry, which will ruin his job prospects and future relationships.

[Daniel-X]

She obviously has a passport the lying cow

[UserSince2005]

14 years old is old enough to be able to decide you want dick afaic. ask the germans.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by UserSince2005

14 years old is old enough to be able to decide you want dick afaic. ask the germans.

You might ask Adam Johnson about that

[Denver]

im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting

[caprimint]

Originally Posted by Adam.

im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting

Why would you report your friend? He's technically not doing anything wrong if she's telling him she's 18. If it's out of pride or something that's not cool.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Adam.

im going to ask him later if they did anything then if they have i may have to consider reporting

[Alf]

Jesus, this threads getting deep and serious.

[Denver]

Originally Posted by Alf

Jesus, this threads getting deep and serious.

its a serious issue that im seeking genuine advice on if you dont like it log off

[MTVN]

You're going to try and get your friend arrested for doing 'something' with someone who may or may not be underage and who your friend doesn't know whether she is or not?