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View Poll Results: What are your deal-breakers when it comes to forgiving and how easy is it for you?
I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much 0 0%
I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much
0 0%
Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t 3 42.86%
Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t
3 42.86%
I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people) 1 14.29%
I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people)
1 14.29%
So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything 1 14.29%
So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything
1 14.29%
^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point 1 14.29%
^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point
1 14.29%
I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that 0 0%
I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that
0 0%
Mixed/can’t decide/other 1 14.29%
Mixed/can’t decide/other
1 14.29%
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Old 26-07-2022, 08:28 AM #1
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Default How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

And by that I mean (as it says in the title, really, but I’ll explain a bit more), is it easy for you to forgive people even when they’ve wronged you in some of the most despicable ways - e.g., gaslighting the hell out of you and casting doubt over your capabilities and sanity to the point where you became an invalidated shell of yourself for months (or more); roping you into a smear campaign when you were really just minding your business; doing the dirty with your other half - or do you just F people off at the slightest sign of disrespect/interpersonal toxicity (which is absolutely fine if that’s where your boundaries are at)?
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