How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

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How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

View Poll Results: What are your deal-breakers when it comes to forgiving and how easy is it for you?

I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much

I’ve got enough on my own plate without having to deal with toxicity so I don’t forgive much
	0	0%

Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t

42.86%

Cross a serious boundary with me and you’re dead to me but I tolerate more than I don’t
	3	42.86%

I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people)

14.29%

I give people chances before I F them off (I try and see the best in people)
	1	14.29%

So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything

14.29%

So long as no-one dies, I can forgive just shout anything
	1	14.29%

^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point

14.29%

^ but the people have to really mean something to me. Random acquaintances can be gone after a point
	1	14.29%

I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that

I don’t even let anyone in (hardcore introvert) so I don’t need to worry about all that
	0	0%

Mixed/can’t decide/other

14.29%

Mixed/can’t decide/other
	1	14.29%

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26-07-2022, 09:32 AM

Zizu

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Zizu

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How much active personal value do you put on forgiveness (and what are your limits?)

This is a vey interesting and rather complex talking point !!

I have maybe an extreme take on things as from my part I can forgive ( if not forget ) just about anything - if the ‘person’ is simply too young to know ( or simply incapable of knowing ) any better .

Sadly , if it’s an adult that wrongs me or my family / friends then sadly there’s really no coming back .

This may not seem to be a rational view to many of you but I attribute my ‘off kilter’ view to me being Aspergers/ADHD ( and dyslexic... sigh)

That said , thankfully there haven’t been many incidents anyway and I don’t dwell on them ... they are just filed away in my virtual filing cabinet

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Last edited by Zizu; 26-07-2022 at 09:34 AM.

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