[Crimson Dynamo]

Originally Posted by cub

Being gay has nothing to do with upbringing or personality. You sexuality makes you gay and everyone is slightly different. Whether you are attracted to white people, black people or asians is based on your sexual make up/personal desires.

My father was the dominant person in our household - not that he was aggressive; he was just the boss. He certainly wasn't absent and was there all through my upbringing. My mother worked so she wasn't a stay at home parent.

My brother is heterosexual. I am gay. Were it true than upbringing or nurture decided one's sexuality. We'd both be straight or gay.

we have been through this pov

the fact that 2 close siblings often have different personalities and traits is evidence enough that no 2 children have the same upbringing or relationship with their parents. Your parents relationship can change in 1 week, month, year and greatly influences who you are.