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I work at a pub as you all know and my latest boss that has come in has no respect for boundaries she shouldn’t cross or respect for my life outside of working at the pub. She gives me set hours on a rota yet waits until my day’s off and rings me begging to come in. There’s always some DRAMATIC reason why she just cannot work and I will have to do it for her. I went in for her on Friday afternoon because she ‘had a tummy bug’ but she ate pizza in front of my face about 2 hours later and then had a row with me when I moaned that she tried to give me my wages out of the till instead of in the bank. I did a 13 hour shift on Saturday finishing at 1, plus an 8 hour shift yesterday and my first day off today she’s already rang asking me to go in for some new dramatic reason why she can’t. It’s like she has no boundaries and will question me about what I’m doing when I say no. I’ve told her that I don’t wish to be called on my days off but she said she can’t help it if there’s a genuine reason for it. Tbh I think she’s a bit of a narcissist and doesn’t actually value my feelings outside of me being an employee.

Just wondering if anyone has ever dealt with anything similar to this?