[AnnieK]

You don't have to do much to be a good dad....just be there with and for her. The easiest way to deal with a crazy ex who will use the child as a weapon is to toe the line. The more time you spend with your daughter and the older she gets she will be able to make her own decisions but until then if mum has custody you need to try and seem as willing as possible to do what she wants. If you don't spend loads of time with your daughter it will feel awkward but the more time you invest, the rewards will come.