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Originally Posted by Tom

Definitely. Call me shallow but I'd never go out with anyone who is rubbish in bed, let alone be married to them!

Problem with that is that marriage is supposedly for life - but we all know that lust doesn't last anywhere near that long. There has to be an awful lot more to a relationship than that (because chances are 'that' won't last for long).

What's preferable - liking someone and enjoying their company - but not fancying them OR fancying the pants off someone, but being bored rigid by them - on a long-term basis.